Trust in slave training:

In his book “It’s Your Ship: Man­age­ment Tech­niques from the Best Damn Ship in the Navy”    Com­man­der  Michael Abrashoff  says that per­sonal trust is like a bank.  You need to make deposits often and let it build up quan­tity and inter­est.  He points out that as events hap­pen in life you may well need to spend some of this trust so you need reserves.  Spend the trust wisely and save it for emergencies.

This may well be true in slave train­ing.  The slave girl you are train­ing may react the wrong way to a train­ing step you take or you might just make a stu­pid mis­take were extra trust in the bank will help.

It is nice to have trust in the bank to spend when that happens.

Trust In a Master/slave relationship

Often the big key to suc­cess­ful slave train­ing is based on the amount of trust she has in her Master.

What com­poses this “Bank of Trust” that she has is her belief that  he has the knowl­edge and skills to train her cor­rectly, keep her  phys­i­cally and emo­tion­ally safe, accepts own­er­ship of her as a slave girl once trained, will struc­ture ser­vice to make her use­ful and pro­duc­tive and has sta­bil­ity in his on life.  With this foun­da­tion trust can be deposited in the bank.

caged girl

Trust Bank­ruptcy in slave training

Most of us that’s been around for a while has seen those spend more trust than they have and spend it to quickly.   If you over­spend the rela­tion­ship it is most likely over.    So build a trust fund to spend as needed or when you must.

The foun­da­tion for build­ing trust with your slave is com­mu­ni­ca­tion and hon­esty.   It is also impor­tant that a slave know that her body is safe with you dur­ing play and you have the skills nec­es­sary to play wisely.    Mis­takes hap­pen so cred­i­bil­ity is impor­tant so that she does not loose con­fi­dence in your skills.   She only grows if she trust you.