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slave Questionnaire & Checklist

This pre-training Ques­tion­naire and bdsm check­list for a slave pro­vided is a go-by for a Mas­ter to read and pre­pare his own.     If you want a copy let me know .    Most of the time I have copy pro­tect soft­ware active on my site but will email you a copy.    It’s shown in ruff draft for­mat and you’ll have to final­ize your own for per­sonal use.

This is a slave train­ing ques­tion­naire  and bdsm lifestyle check­list  for any­one you are con­sid­er­ing for train­ing as a slave girl.

AUGUST 19, 2012,  I added the link below to a win-zip file you can down­load  con­tain­ing three ver­sions of the ques­tion­naire.   Let me know it it works for you.   

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The slave train­ing ques­tion­naire is as follows:

Ques­tion­naire for con­sid­er­a­tion as a slave trainee. 

This may be the most detailed ques­tion­naire you have ever com­pleted about your­self. How­ever in a Master/slave rela­tion­ship, com­plete open­ness is required in order for it to be successful.

The poten­tial slave agrees to answer all ques­tions with total hon­esty and as much soul search­ing as she is able. This is required in regards to each and every question.

The basis of the rela­tion­ship with your poten­tial Mas­ter and your own growth as His slave demands total hon­esty and relaxed, focused atten­tion to all details requested. Copy and paste this form, answer the ques­tions and then send to me via e-mail within 4 days.  The spac­ing of this ques­tion­naire does not deter­mine the length of your answers. If you are unable to whole­heart­edly give this your focused atten­tion, DO NOT ANSWER

The ques­tion­naire is expected to be returned via e-mail within four (4) days.

 

Date com­pleted:

Name:

Con­tact tele­phone num­ber and time you nor­mally can be reached:

Email addresses:

Yahoo IM:

Other means of contact:

Age:

Where you live:

Part One of slave train­ing ques­tion­naire: Gen­eral overview and Information

A. How may years of expe­ri­ence do you have?

B. How long have you known of your inter­est in bdsm?

C. What is your sex­ual orientation?

1. Het­ero­sex­ual exclusively

2. Bisex­ual

3. Homo­sex­ual

4. BiCu­ri­ous

5. Open to train­ing con­trolled by my Master?

D. What kind of rela­tion­ship are you presently able to pro­vide to a Master?

1. Long term, live in

2. Offline, meet­ing often

3. Offline, meet­ing occasionally

4. Online and offline, meet­ing often

5. Online and offline, meet­ing occasionally

6. Online only

7. Not sure yet

E. Main interest

1. Sen­sual and physical

2. Psy­cho­sex­ual and mental

3. Both equally

4. serv­ing your Master

F. Are you… (rate each from 1=lowest to 10=highest) if expla­na­tion is nec­es­sary do so.

Sadis­tic             ____

Masochis­tic       ____

Dom­i­nant           ____

Sub­mis­sive        ____

Switch                ____


G. Your level of inter­est in bondage:

1. Total helplessness

2. Light bondage

3. Not my favorite thing

4. Out­side my limits

5. Never tried it

H. Pain (what you are, or what you’re look­ing for)

1. Pain slut

2. Whip­ping, can­ing, paddling

3. Light pad­dling, sen­sual whip­ping, no marks

4. not interested

 

Part two of slave train­ing ques­tion­naire: Detailed questions

All answers are expected to elab­o­rate on the sub­ject mat­ter in ques­tion. No one (1) word answers are to be given. All answers shall be a min­i­mum of one full sentence.

1. i seek and require the guid­ance of a Mas­ter to.…?

(What  being a slave is going to do for you?)

2. i seek and require the guid­ance of a Mas­ter because.…?

(Why do you have the need for a Master?)

3. How impor­tant is the ful­fill­ment of these needs to you?

4. i seek to pro­vide my Mas­ter with.…?

(psy­cho­log­i­cally, emo­tion­ally, and sexually.)

5. my concept/definition of ‘sub­mis­sion’ is.…?

6. my concept/definition of ‘servi­tude’ is.…?

7. my concept/definition of “com­mit­ment’ is.…?

8. my favorite sex­ual fan­tasy is.…?

9. Describe the fol­low­ing areas that you have endured and how you would like your lim­its expanded within each situation.

a. Tit torture

b. Ass play

c. Bondage scenes

d. Whip­ping scenes

10. Describe one area not men­tioned you have endured and how you would like your lim­its of such expanded.

11. In what area(s) do you require con­cen­trated training?

12. Are you will­ing to accept the idea of being trained as the prop­erty of your Master?

13. Describe how you will serve your Mas­ter in His absence.

14. The fol­low­ing two ques­tions deal with your cur­rent and ini­tial pref­er­ences. These two ques­tions may be answered with either a “Yes, Sir!” or a “No, Sir!” as long as you elab­o­rate upon them with a min­i­mum of one full sentence:

Do you pre­fer your Mas­ter to be:

Rough, tough, and stubborn?

Firm, stern, yet considerate?

Some­thing else? What?

Do you pre­fer to:

· be com­manded and ordered about?

· be given a set rules to obey?

· know the rea­son for some commands/orders?

· have no say in your train­ing and use?

· have input in your train­ing and use?

15) Tell me of your sex­ual energy ?

a) I like sex any­time I can get it with multi-partners.

b) I like sex, but there are other things that are just as impor­tant to me.

c)  I like it about three times a week.

d) Once a week .

e) I can live with­out Sex. It is a low pri­or­ity in my life.  Serv­ing is more important.

f) I like sex, how­ever I like it in my rela­tion­ship, out­side of a rela­tion­ship I can live with­out it.

16. Com­ments. (on any area(s) not cov­ered by the ques­tion­naire that you feel are rel­e­vant in your case that have not been addressed.)

17. What are your known Hardlim­its that you would like to maintain?

 

This is a detailed part of the slave train­ing questionnaire:  

Pre­pare a detailed descrip­tion of your for­mer train­ing.  Start at the begin­ning and take it Mas­ter by Master.

Describe the type of train­ing you received and types of scenes you had.

Explain any prob­lems with the relationships.

How long you were trained and what the major thing you learned from each.

What you liked and did not like about pre­vi­ous train­ing experiences.

Describe how your were rewarded and punished.

In addi­tion describe any expe­ri­ence you have had as a switch.

 

Part Three of slave train­ing ques­tion­naire:  Expe­ri­ence Level and Interests

your poten­tial Mas­ter does not nec­es­sar­ily engage in any of the following-described con­duct. How­ever, it is essen­tial that you pro­vide scrupu­lously accu­rate answers so I can real­is­ti­cally assess your qual­i­fi­ca­tions as well as whether I need to address other issues in your per­son­al­ity besides your desire to serve.

For each item, you need to pro­vide two answers:

For expe­ri­ence, write YES or NO next to each item to indi­cate if you have ever DONE that activ­ity. For will­ing­ness, indi­cate for each item how you feel about DOING that activ­ity by rat­ing it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5 (“?” means you don’t under­stand what the item is attempt­ing to describe. NO means you will NOT do that item under any cir­cum­stances (a hard limit).

NO means basi­cally a hard limit and that you have absolutely no desire to do this.

0 (zero) indi­cates you have utterly no desire to do that activ­ity and don’t like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordi­nar­ily object to doing it, but you would per­mit the Mas­ter to do it if it they really wanted it. (some­times called a “soft limit”).

1 means you don’t want to do or like to do this activ­ity, but wouldn’t object if it was asked of you.

2 means you are will­ing to do this activ­ity, but it has no spe­cial appeal for you.

3 means you usu­ally like doing this activ­ity, at least on an irregular/occasional basis.

4 means you like doing this activ­ity, and would like to expe­ri­ence it on a reg­u­lar basis.

5 means the activ­ity is a wild turn-on for you and you would like it as often as possible.

 Note any addi­tional infor­ma­tion or nuances which might be impor­tant for your Mas­ter to know in the mar­gin to the right.

BDSM check LIST 

Abra­sion :

Anal sex (top) :

Anal sex (bottom) :

If so, ever with­out condoms?:

Anal plugs (small) :

Anal plugs (large) :

Anal plug (pub­lic, under clothes):

Ani­mal roles :

Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) :

Asphyx­i­a­tion :

Ass lick­ing (giving):

Ass lick­ing (receiving):

Bath­room use control :

Beat­ing (soft) :

Beat­ing (hard) :

Bes­tial­ity (k9):

Bes­tial­ity –other:

Blind­folds :

Being bit­ten :

Breath con­trol :

Brand­ing :

Boot wor­ship :

Bondage (light) :

Bondage (heavy) :

Bondage (multi-day) :

Bondage (pub­lic, under clothing) :

Brown show­ers (scat) :

Cages (locked inside of) :

Can­ing :

Catheter­i­za­tion :

Cat­tle prod or stun gun (elec­tri­cal toy) :

Cells/Closets (locked inside of) :

Chains :

Chastity belts :

Clothes­pins :

if you have had them used where?:

Cock suck­ing:

Do you swallow?:

Col­lars (worn in private) :

Col­lars (worn in public) :

Cuffs (leather) :

Cuffs (metal) :

Dia­pers (wearing) :

Denied pri­vacy:

describe the denial:

Douches as part of play:

Dou­ble Pen­e­tra­tion (anal and cunt):

Dil­dos :

Eat­ing Cunt:

Elec­tric­ity :

Ene­mas (for cleansing) :

Ene­mas (retention/punishment) :

Enforced chastity :

Erotic dance (for audience):

Erotic dance (private) :

Exam­i­na­tions (physical) :

Exer­cise (forced/required) :

Exhi­bi­tion­ism :

Eye con­tact restrictions :

Face slap­ping :

Fan­tasy rape :

Fear (being scared) :

Fist­ing (anal) :

Flame (fire play) play :

Foot wor­ship :

Forced mas­tur­ba­tion :

Forced nudity (private) :

Forced nudity (around others) :

Forced servi­tude :

Full head hoods :

Gags (cloth) :

Gags (inflat­able) :

Gags (phal­lic) :

Gags (rub­ber) :

Gags (tape) :

Gas masks :

Given away to another Mas­ter (temp) :

Ser­vic­ing another Mas­ter upon command:

Golden show­ers :

Hair­brush spankings :

Hair pulling :

Hand jobs (giving) :

Har­ness­ing (leather and or rope) :

Homage with tongue (non-sexual) :

Hoods :

Hot Creams (Ben-Gay) on genitals:

Hot oils (on genitals) :

Hot wax­ing :

House­work (doing) :

Human puppy dog :

Humil­i­a­tion :

Ice cubes :

If you have expe­ri­enced, where?: (nips, ass)

Immo­bi­liza­tion :

If so, how?

Inter­ro­ga­tions :

Leather cloth­ing :

Leather restraints :

Lick­ing (non-sexual) :

Lin­gerie (wearing) :

Man­a­cles & Irons :

Mas­sage (giving) :

Mas­sage (receiving) :

Med­ical scenes :

Mod­el­ing for erotic photos :

Pho­tograph­ing your train­ing ses­sions with your Master:

Mouth bits :

Multi-partners:

Mum­mi­fi­ca­tion :

Nee­dle Play:

Nip­ple clamps :

Nip­ple rings (piercing):

Nip­ple play/“torture” :

Nip­ple weights :

Oral/anal play (rimming):

Over-the-knee spank­ing :

Orgasm denial :

Orgasm con­trol :

Out­door scenes :

Out­door sex :

Pain (severe) :

Pain (mild) :

Pierc­ing (tem­po­rary, play-pierce):

Pierc­ing (permanent) :

Prison scenes :

Pun­ish­ment Scene :

Pussy tor­ture:

describe tor­ture:

Restric­tive rules on behavior :

Rubber/latex cloth­ing :

Rope body harness :

Role play­ing:

Saran wrap­ping :

Sen­sory deprivation :

Serv­ing as ashtray :

Serv­ing as furniture :

Serv­ing as a maid :

Serv­ing as toi­let (urine) :

Serv­ing orally (sexual) :

Serv­ing other Mas­ters (supervised) :

Serv­ing other Mas­ters (unsupervised):

Serv­ing oth­ers as sex slave:

Shav­ing (body hair) :

Shav­ing (head hair) :

Slave posi­tions training:

Sleep depri­va­tion :

Span­dex clothing :

Spank­ing :

Speech restric­tions (when, what) :

Spit­ting :

Spreader bars :

Stocks :

Straight jack­ets :

Strap­ping (full body beating) :

Strap-on dildo receiving:

Strap-on dildo giving:

Sus­pen­sion (upright) :

Sus­pen­sion (inverted) :

Sus­pen­sion (horizontal) :

Sup­ply­ing new part­ners for Master :

Swal­low­ing semen :

Swal­low­ing urine: yours?; others?

Swap­ping (with one other couple) :

Tat­toos:

TENS Unit (elec­tri­cal toy) :

Tick­ling :

Uni­forms :

Ver­bal humiliation :

Vibra­tor on genitals :

Vio­let Wand (elec­tri­cal toy) :

Voyeurism (watch­ing others) :

Video (watch­ing others) :

Video (record­ings of you) :

Wax­ing (hair removal) :

Whip­ping :

Wooden pad­dles :

Wrestling :

Will­ing­ness quick-key

? Don’t under­stand this item.

NO I WILL NOT DO that item under ANY cir­cum­stances (a hard limit).

0 No desire, don’t like, will per­mit if spe­cial to Dom (a soft limit).

1 Don’t want to do, but will.

2 Will­ing to do, but has no spe­cial appeal.

3 Usu­ally LIKE doing, on an occa­sional basis.

4 LIKE doing, would like it on a reg­u­lar basis.

5 WILD TURN-ON, would like it as often as possible.

What you think is your best phys­i­cal feature:

What you think is your worst phys­i­cal feature:

Do you have any tat­toos or piercing?

What has been your most intense scene involv­ing SM/BD?

 

Part Four of slave train­ing ques­tion­naire:  The slave’s Background

HEALTH ISSUES

Do you smoke?

Do you drink?

How often:

Amount:

Do you use drugs?

Pre­scrip­tion:

Other drugs:

Have you been in a drug abuse program?

Have you been diag­nosed with men­tal problems?

Describe:

Do you have any dis­abil­i­ties (vis­i­ble or invisible)?

Describe:

Do you wear con­tact lenses?

Do you have any spe­cial dietary needs or restrictions?

Are you aller­gic to dogs, cats, or other?

Do you have any sex­u­ally trans­mit­ted diseases?

Are you sub­ject to any form of loss of con­sciences or seizures?

Do you have panic attacks or phobias?

Do you now or have you suf­fered from depression?

What was your last ill­ness that resulted in hopistal­iza­tion and when?

List you sex toys below and tell me the ones used most often.

DOMESTIC SKILLS:

Describe your abil­i­ties in domes­tic ser­vice such as cook­ing, clean­ing, Gen­eral House work.

OTHER SKILLS

Describe your abil­i­ties at

Mas­sage

Danc­ing

Com­puter skills

Book­keep­ing

Finan­cial record keeping

Other skills:

 

RELATIONSHIPS

Cur­rent mar­tial status:

Have you been mar­ried before: if yes, very short sum­mary of details:

Have you ever been unfaith­ful to your lover or Master?

describe:

Is there any rea­son why you would not be able to com­mit 100%?

(past, present or future reason)

Have you ever inten­tion­ally made your sex part­ner or MASTER mad?

If so why:

 

Cir­cum­stances, fre­quency and preference:

What is the most you have ever cum in a 24 hour time period? Describe circumstances.

How often do you mas­tur­bate and what meth­ods do you use?

Do you freely admit when you have done some­thing wrong and are you prepared

for the punishment?

Describe:

Have you vio­lated any law in the past two years?

Have you been arrested?

Describe:

How do you char­ac­ter­ize your house­keep­ing abilities?:

Describe your culi­nary abilities:

Do you have any strongly felt polit­i­cal beliefs? If so, describe.

When other peo­ple meet you and get to know you, what do you think is the MOST impor­tant thing about you that they like about you?

What is your worst habit, i.e., is there any­thing you do which you wish you could stop doing?

Over­all, what do you think makes you the sort of per­son other peo­ple want to be around?

What per­son­al­ity trait of yours do you think your friends like the least?

Title of the last motion pic­ture you saw:

What are your musi­cal tastes?

What is your cur­rent employment?

What is your source of income?

How long?

Describe your hobbies:

Describe what social activ­i­ties you reg­u­larly engage in:

Describe your abil­i­ties when it comes to han­dling your per­sonal finances:

What are your thoughts about obey­ing a Master’s orders? Are there any sit­u­a­tions in which you think you would hes­i­tate to fol­low your Master’s orders?

Do you feel that any cur­rent or prior reli­gious beliefs will cause you per­sonal con­flict in slave train­ing and obedience?

In what areas would you not be will­ing to defer to your Master’s orders? Specif­i­cally, con­trol of a slave involves con­trol of her mind. Are there any por­tions of your thoughts which would be off lim­its to your Mas­ter. Explain.

Are you will­ing to enter into an own­er­ship agree­ment if the chem­istry is right? If so, what rights would you, as a slave insist on being part of such a contract?

Are you will­ing to sign a pre-contract or train­ing agree­ment that details the direc­tion of your training?

What is your biggest fears about under­go­ing slave training?

What do you look for­ward to the most about under­go­ing slave training?

Do you have prob­lems reach­ing orgasm?

Are you able to relo­cate to became a 24/7 slave?

Does the fact that rebecca (my slave for over 10 years) will have some super­vi­sory author­ity dur­ing your train­ing cause you prob­lems? If so why?

Have you ever sub­mit­ted to a female?

One final ques­tion: Sup­pose your MASTER does some­thing which strikes you as being absolutely stu­pid, irre­spon­si­ble, or asi­nine, i.e., some­thing that makes you real­ize that your Mas­ter has flaws. How do you believe you would han­dle this? How do you think it might affect your abil­ity to be sub­mis­sive to your MASTER?

 

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