This pre-training Questionnaire and bdsm checklist for a slave provided is a go-by for a Master to read and prepare his own.     If you want a copy let me know .    Most of the time I have copy protect software active on my site but will email you a copy.    It’s shown in ruff draft format and you’ll have to finalize your own for personal use.

This is a slave training questionnaire  and bdsm lifestyle checklist  for anyone you are considering for training as a slave girl.

AUGUST 19, 2012,  I added the link below to a win-zip file you can download  containing three versions of the questionnaire.   Let me know it it works for you.   

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The slave training questionnaire is as follows:

Questionnaire for consideration as a slave trainee. 

This may be the most detailed questionnaire you have ever completed about yourself. However in a Master/slave relationship, complete openness is required in order for it to be successful.

The potential slave agrees to answer all questions with total honesty and as much soul searching as she is able. This is required in regards to each and every question.

The basis of the relationship with your potential Master and your own growth as His slave demands total honesty and relaxed, focused attention to all details requested. Copy and paste this form, answer the questions and then send to me via e-mail within 4 days.  The spacing of this questionnaire does not determine the length of your answers. If you are unable to wholeheartedly give this your focused attention, DO NOT ANSWER

The questionnaire is expected to be returned via e-mail within four (4) days.


Date completed:


Contact telephone number and time you normally can be reached:

Email addresses:

Yahoo IM:

Other means of contact:


Where you live:

Part One of slave training questionnaire: General overview and Information

A. How may years of experience do you have?

B. How long have you known of your interest in bdsm?

C. What is your sexual orientation?

1. Heterosexual exclusively

2. Bisexual

3. Homosexual

4. BiCurious

5. Open to training controlled by my Master?

D. What kind of relationship are you presently able to provide to a Master?

1. Long term, live in

2. Offline, meeting often

3. Offline, meeting occasionally

4. Online and offline, meeting often

5. Online and offline, meeting occasionally

6. Online only

7. Not sure yet

E. Main interest

1. Sensual and physical

2. Psychosexual and mental

3. Both equally

4. serving your Master

F. Are you… (rate each from 1=lowest to 10=highest) if explanation is necessary do so.

Sadistic             ____

Masochistic       ____

Dominant           ____

Submissive        ____

Switch                ____

G. Your level of interest in bondage:

1. Total helplessness

2. Light bondage

3. Not my favorite thing

4. Outside my limits

5. Never tried it

H. Pain (what you are, or what you’re looking for)

1. Pain slut

2. Whipping, caning, paddling

3. Light paddling, sensual whipping, no marks

4. not interested


Part two of slave training questionnaire: Detailed questions

All answers are expected to elaborate on the subject matter in question. No one (1) word answers are to be given. All answers shall be a minimum of one full sentence.

1. i seek and require the guidance of a Master to….?

(What  being a slave is going to do for you?)

2. i seek and require the guidance of a Master because….?

(Why do you have the need for a Master?)

3. How important is the fulfillment of these needs to you?

4. i seek to provide my Master with….?

(psychologically, emotionally, and sexually.)

5. my concept/definition of ‘submission’ is….?

6. my concept/definition of ‘servitude’ is….?

7. my concept/definition of “commitment’ is….?

8. my favorite sexual fantasy is….?

9. Describe the following areas that you have endured and how you would like your limits expanded within each situation.

a. Tit torture

b. Ass play

c. Bondage scenes

d. Whipping scenes

10. Describe one area not mentioned you have endured and how you would like your limits of such expanded.

11. In what area(s) do you require concentrated training?

12. Are you willing to accept the idea of being trained as the property of your Master?

13. Describe how you will serve your Master in His absence.

14. The following two questions deal with your current and initial preferences. These two questions may be answered with either a “Yes, Sir!” or a “No, Sir!” as long as you elaborate upon them with a minimum of one full sentence:

Do you prefer your Master to be:

Rough, tough, and stubborn?

Firm, stern, yet considerate?

Something else? What?

Do you prefer to:

· be commanded and ordered about?

· be given a set rules to obey?

· know the reason for some commands/orders?

· have no say in your training and use?

· have input in your training and use?

15) Tell me of your sexual energy ?

a) I like sex anytime I can get it with multi-partners.

b) I like sex, but there are other things that are just as important to me.

c)  I like it about three times a week.

d) Once a week .

e) I can live without Sex. It is a low priority in my life.  Serving is more important.

f) I like sex, however I like it in my relationship, outside of a relationship I can live without it.

16. Comments. (on any area(s) not covered by the questionnaire that you feel are relevant in your case that have not been addressed.)

17. What are your known Hardlimits that you would like to maintain?


This is a detailed part of the slave training questionnaire:  

Prepare a detailed description of your former training.  Start at the beginning and take it Master by Master.

Describe the type of training you received and types of scenes you had.

Explain any problems with the relationships.

How long you were trained and what the major thing you learned from each.

What you liked and did not like about previous training experiences.

Describe how your were rewarded and punished.

In addition describe any experience you have had as a switch.


Part Three of slave training questionnaire:  Experience Level and Interests

your potential Master does not necessarily engage in any of the following-described conduct. However, it is essential that you provide scrupulously accurate answers so I can realistically assess your qualifications as well as whether I need to address other issues in your personality besides your desire to serve.

For each item, you need to provide two answers:

For experience, write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity. For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about DOING that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5 (“?” means you don’t understand what the item is attempting to describe. NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).

NO means basically a hard limit and that you have absolutely no desire to do this.

0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don’t like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit the Master to do it if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a “soft limit”).

1 means you don’t want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn’t object if it was asked of you.

2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.

3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/occasional basis.

4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.

5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you and you would like it as often as possible.

 Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for your Master to know in the margin to the right.

BDSM check LIST 

Abrasion :

Anal sex (top) :

Anal sex (bottom) :

If so, ever without condoms?:

Anal plugs (small) :

Anal plugs (large) :

Anal plug (public, under clothes):

Animal roles :

Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) :

Asphyxiation :

Ass licking (giving):

Ass licking (receiving):

Bathroom use control :

Beating (soft) :

Beating (hard) :

Bestiality (k9):

Bestiality -other:

Blindfolds :

Being bitten :

Ben wa balls or kegel balls:

if yes how long did you wear?

Breath control :

Branding :

Boot worship :

Bondage (light) :

Bondage (heavy) :

Bondage (multi-day) :

Bondage (public, under clothing) :

Brown showers (scat) :

Cages (locked inside of) :

Caning :

Catheterization :

Cattle prod or stun gun (electrical toy) :

Cells/Closets (locked inside of) :

Chains :

Chastity belts :

Clothespins :

if you have had them used where?:

Cock sucking:

Do you swallow?:

Collars (worn in private) :

Collars (worn in public) :

Cuffs (leather) :

Cuffs (metal) :

Diapers (wearing) :

Denied privacy:

describe the denial:

Douches as part of play:

Double Penetration (anal and cunt):

Dildos :

Eating Cunt:

Electricity :

Enemas (for cleansing) :

Enemas (retention/punishment) :

Enforced chastity :

Erotic dance (for audience):

Erotic dance (private) :

Examinations (physical) :

Exercise (forced/required) :

Exhibitionism :

Eye contact restrictions :

Face slapping :

Fantasy rape :

Fear (being scared) :

Fisting (anal) :

Flame (fire play) play :

Foot worship :

Forced masturbation :

Forced nudity (private) :

Forced nudity (around others) :

Forced servitude :

Full head hoods :

Gags (cloth) :

Gags (inflatable) :

Gags (phallic) :

Gags (rubber) :

Gags (tape) :

Gas masks :

Given away to another Master (temp) :

Servicing another Master upon command:

Golden showers :

Hairbrush spankings :

Hair pulling :

Hand jobs (giving) :

Harnessing (leather and or rope) :

Homage with tongue (non-sexual) :

Hoods :

Hot Creams (Ben-Gay) on genitals:

Hot oils (on genitals) :

Hot waxing :

Housework (doing) :

Human puppy dog :

Humiliation :

Ice cubes :

If you have experienced, where?: (nips, ass)

Immobilization :

If so, how?

Interrogations :

Lactation training:

Lactation (miking tits):

if you have explain procedure:

Leather clothing :

Leather restraints :

Licking (non-sexual) :

Lingerie (wearing) :

Manacles & Irons :

Massage (giving) :

Massage (receiving) :

Medical scenes :

Modeling for erotic photos :

Photographing  training sessions with your Master:

Mouth bits :


Mummification :

Needle Play:

Nipple clamps :

Nipple rings (piercing):

Nipple play/”torture” :

if a type not listed then explain:

Nipple weights :

Obeying verbal commands such as “kneel”,  “stand”  or “Present.”

Oral/anal play (rimming):

Over-the-knee spanking :

Orgasm denial :

Orgasm control :

Outdoor scenes :

Outdoor sex :

Pain (severe) :

Pain (mild) :

Piercing (temporary, play-pierce):

Piercing (permanent) :

Prison scenes :


if yes to punching, explain

Punishment Scene :

if yes, describe the scene play

Pussy torture:

describe torture:

Restrictive rules on behavior :

Rubber/latex clothing :

Rope body harness :

Role playing:

Saran wrapping :

Sensory deprivation :

Serving as ashtray :

Serving as furniture :

Serving as a maid :

Serving as toilet (urine) :

Serving orally (sexual) :

Serving other Masters (supervised) :

Serving other Masters (unsupervised):

Serving others as sex slave:

Shaving (body hair) :

Shaving (head hair) :

Slave positions training:

Sleep deprivation :

Spandex clothing :

Spanking :

Speech restrictions (when, what) :

Spitting :

Spreader bars :

Stocks :

Straight jackets :

Strapping (full body beating) :

Strap-on dildo receiving:

Strap-on dildo giving:

Suspension (upright) :

Suspension (inverted) :

Suspension (horizontal) :

Supplying new partners for Master :

Swallowing semen :

Swallowing urine: yours?; others?

Swapping (with one other couple) :


TENS Unit (electrical toy) :

Tickling :

Uniforms :

Verbal humiliation :

Vibrator on genitals :

Violet Wand (electrical toy) :

Voyeurism (watching others) :

Video (watching others) :

Video (recordings of you) :

Waxing (hair removal) :

Whipping :

Wooden paddles :

Wrestling :

Willingness quick-key

? Don’t understand this item.

NO I WILL NOT DO that item under ANY circumstances (a hard limit).

0 No desire, don’t like, will permit if special to Dom (a soft limit).

1 Don’t want to do, but will.

2 Willing to do, but has no special appeal.

3 Usually LIKE doing, on an occasional basis.

4 LIKE doing, would like it on a regular basis.

5 WILD TURN-ON, would like it as often as possible.


What you think is your best physical feature:

What you think is your worst physical feature:

Do you have problems controlling your temper:

Do you have any tattoos or piercing?

What has been your most intense scene involving SM/BD?


Part Four of slave training questionnaire:  The slave’s Background


Do you smoke?

Do you drink?

How often:


Do you use drugs?


Other drugs:

Have you been in a drug abuse program?

Have you been diagnosed with mental problems?


Do you have any disabilities (visible or invisible)?


Do you wear contact lenses?

Do you have any special dietary needs or restrictions?

Are you allergic to dogs, cats, or other?

Do you have any sexually transmitted diseases?

Are you subject to any form of loss of consciences or seizures?

Do you have panic attacks or phobias?

Do you now or have you suffered from depression?

What was your last illness that resulted in hopistalization and when?

List you sex toys below and tell me the ones used most often.


Describe your abilities in domestic service such as cooking, cleaning, General House work.


Describe your abilities at



Computer skills


Financial record keeping

Other skills:


List sex toys you own and bdsm toys.

List & describe any bdsm equipment and furniture.


Current martial status:

Have you been married before: if yes, very short summary of details:

Have you ever been unfaithful to your lover or Master?


Is there any reason why you would not be able to commit 100%?

(past, present or future reason)

Have you ever intentionally made your sex partner or MASTER mad?

If so why:


Circumstances, frequency and preference:

What is the most you have ever cum in a 24 hour time period? Describe circumstances.

How often do you masturbate and what methods do you use?

Do you freely admit when you have done something wrong and are you prepared

for the punishment?


Have you violated any law in the past two years?

Have you been arrested?


How do you characterize your housekeeping abilities?:

Describe your culinary abilities:

Do you have any strongly felt political beliefs? If so, describe.

When other people meet you and get to know you, what do you think is the MOST important thing about you that they like about you?

What is your worst habit, i.e., is there anything you do which you wish you could stop doing?

Overall, what do you think makes you the sort of person other people want to be around?

What personality trait of yours do you think your friends like the least?

Title of the last motion picture you saw:

What are your musical tastes?

What is your current employment?

What is your source of income?

How long?

Describe your hobbies:

Describe what social activities you regularly engage in:

Describe your abilities when it comes to handling your personal finances:

What are your thoughts about obeying a Master’s orders? Are there any situations in which you think you would hesitate to follow your Master’s orders?

Do you feel that any current or prior religious beliefs will cause you personal conflict in slave training and obedience?

In what areas would you not be willing to defer to your Master’s orders? Specifically, control of a slave involves control of her mind. Are there any portions of your thoughts which would be off limits to your Master. Explain.

Are you willing to enter into an ownership agreement if the chemistry is right? If so, what rights would you, as a slave insist on being part of such a contract?

Are you willing to sign a pre-contract or training agreement that details the direction of your training?

What is your biggest fears about undergoing slave training?

What do you look forward to the most about undergoing slave training?

Do you have problems reaching orgasm?

Are you able to relocate to became a 24/7 slave?

Does the fact that rebecca (my slave for over 10 years) will have some supervisory authority during your training cause you problems? If so why?

Have you ever submitted to a female?

One final question: Suppose your MASTER does something which strikes you as being absolutely stupid, irresponsible, or asinine, i.e., something that makes you realize that your Master has flaws. How do you believe you would handle this? How do you think it might affect your ability to be submissive to your MASTER?