slave contract & training agreement

The major purpose of a slave contract is to define the goals and set standards expected of a slave and establish the responsibilities of the Master.  A slave contract is not a legally binding contract, but it is a symbolic representation of the commitment for both Master and slave. Within the BDSM community the slave contract is considered an important document and should only be approached if both Master and slave are serious and committed to the future.  A slave contract is to be entered into with the informed consent of both parties.

 

Egyptian slave in waiting - slave contract - bdsm

The slave contract reflects what is expected in the re-education and re-socialization of the slave. Generally slave contracts are more detailed during earlier stages of training than if rewritten in later stages. The details in earlier slave contracts help guide both Master and slave in the right direction.

Slave Contracts don’t define how a slave is to act all the time, but instead provide general concepts. It often refers to rules and guidelines that will be set by the Master that are independent of the contract. The slave contract is a permanent document that does not change much over time; however rules and guidelines may change.  A slave contract is a future oriented document.  The intent of the slave contract is to explain what is expected of both Master and slave in the future. The freedoms given to her Master should be clearly defined in the slave contract and understood by the slave. There is no reason not to freely discuss the slave contract with a trainee before both sign the document.

Be Real:

A slave contract must be realistic to have any real value to the parties.  There are many examples of contracts on the internet so read several and prepare your own based upon your lifestyle.

Each party entering a relationship has expectations and desires.   Make sure the contract meets as much as possible the desires of both parties.  Make sure you want to own or be a slave before considering signing the contract.   Have a realistic view.

Simplicity of contract: 

When you first do a contract you may make it very complex and cover many issues in great detail.   I admit I did that in my early contracts.   The truth is you can use a very general slave contract.  You will find you need a living breathing document that grows with you.   Many find a general contract works better than a detailed one.   I agree.

 

Some Basic Elements to Consider when preparing a slave contract:

Below are a few quick check lists of common elements in a slave contract.   These elements may be very detailed or general.  This is not an all-inclusive list.

1) Names of Parties involved and their role in the relationship along with titles such as “Master” and “slave”.

2) Period of slave’s service: Beginning of contract terms (period of service).   Maybe lifelong.

3) Conditions of slavery: Domination and submission extent and rules & duties.  Punishment.

4) Limitations to Master’s authority: Any limits and or safe words and how they are applied.   Example would be to not do bodily harm or destroy Mother/daughter relationship.   Slave rights for free time and periods of open communication.

5) Terminating Contract: How and who can terminate the relationship and why it can be ended.   If proper the period of time the contract covers before being renewed or canceled.   Method of renewing contract.

6) Oath and Signatures of Parties and witnesses: Oath of parties to obey, signing that they agree.  Witnesses to signing and date signed.

 

Sample slave contracts:

Slave contract I

Slave contract serves as reminder that she is owned property of her Master. The slave contract serves as a reminder to the slave of the freedoms she has delivered to her Master. It is also a reminder to the Master of his responsibilities to his slave.

An actual slave contract is not shown here. It would be a waste of space since there are so many examples on the internet. They range from play or scene contracts to slave contracts.

The major consideration of a slave before signing the contract is to make sure she is willing and able to abide by the conditions, restrictions and loss of freedoms before signing. The signing of a contract cannot be a forced act. It is a consensual document and must be clearly understood. Before the actual signing of the contract is the right time to ask questions and get answers.

 

Sample Consensual “Slavery” Contract:

 

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NOTE: It should go without saying that a “slave contract” such as this is not legally binding. Documents such as these are intended only to provide a fantasy environment for extended role-playing.

 

1.0.0 Slave’s Role:

 

The slave agrees to submit completely to the Master in all ways. There are no boundaries of place, time, or situation in which the slave may willfully refuse to obey the directive of the Master without risking punishment, except in situations where the slave’s veto (see section 1.0.1) applies. The slave also agrees that, once entered into the Slavery Contract, their body belongs to their Master, to be used as seen fit, within the guidelines defined herein. All of the slave’s possessions likewise belong to the Master, including all assets, finances, and material goods, to do with as they see fit. The slave agrees to please the Master to the best of their ability, in that they now exist solely for the pleasure of said Master.

 

1.0.1 Slave’s Veto:

 

The slave, where appropriate, holds veto power over any command given by the Master, at which time they may rightfully refuse to obey that command. This power may only be invoked under the following circumstances, or where agreed by both Master and slave:

Where said command conflicts with any existing laws and may lead to fines, arrest, or prosecution of the slave.

Where said command may cause extreme damage to slave’s life, such as losing their job, causing family stress, etc.

Where said command may cause permanent bodily harm (see 4.0.0) to the slave.

Where said command may cause psychological trauma to the slave, such as a rape scene for a slave that has been raped in the past.

2.0.0 Master’s Role:

 

The Master accepts the responsibility of the slave’s body and worldly possessions, to do with as they see fit, under the provisions determined in this contract. The Master agrees to care for the slave, to arrange for the safety and well-being of the slave, as long as they own the slave. The Master also accepts the commitment to treat the slave properly, to train the slave, punish the slave, love the slave, and use the slave as they see fit.

 

3.0.0 Punishment:

 

The slave agrees to accept any punishment the Master decides to inflict, whether earned or not.

 

3.0.1 Rules of Punishment:

Punishment of the slave is subject to certain rules designed to protect the slave from intentional abuse or permanent bodily harm (see 4.0.0). Punishment must not incur permanent bodily harm, or the following forms of abuse:

1) Blood may not be drawn at any time. Punishment must stop immediately if blood is drawn.

2) Burning the body.

3) Drastic loss of circulation.

4) Causing internal bleeding.

5) Loss of consciousness.

6) Withholding of any necessary materials, such as food, water, or sunlight for extended periods of time.

 

4.0.0 Permanent Bodily Harm:

 

Since the body of the slave now belongs to the Master, it is the Master’s responsibility to protect that body from permanent bodily harm. Should the slave ever come to permanent bodily harm during the course of punishment or in any other slavery related activity, whether by intention or accident, it will be grounds for immediate termination of this contract, should the slave so desire. Permanent bodily harm shall be determined as:

1) Death.

2) Any damage that involves loss of mobility or function, including broken bones.

3) Any permanent marks on the skin, including scars, burns, or tattoos, unless accepted by the slave.

4) Any loss of hair, unless accepted by the slave.

5) Any piercing of the flesh which leaves a permanent hole, unless accepted by the slave.

6) Any diseases that could result in any of the above results, including sexually transmitted diseases.

5.0.0 Others:

The slave may not seek any other Master or lover or relate to others in any sexual or submissive way without the Master’s permission. To do so will be considered a breach of contract, and will result in extreme punishment. The Master may accept other slaves or lovers, but must consider the slave’s emotional response to such actions and act accordingly. Under no circumstance should the Master allow such actions to unbalance the slave emotionally, or allow such actions to result in ignoring the slave.

The Master may give the slave to other Masters, provided the rules of this contract are upheld. In such a situation, the master will inform the new master of the provisions stated herein, and any breach by the new Master will be considered a breach by the Master as well, subject to all rules stated in this contract.

6.0.0 Secrecy:

All physical evidence of the slavery will be kept in total secrecy, except where both Master and slave agree. Any violation of this clause shall be cause to terminate this contract, should the injured party wish it. The materials and physical evidence shall be kept under lock and key in a place acceptable to both parties.

7.0.0 Alteration of Contract:

 

This contract may not be altered, except when both master and slave agree. If the contract is altered, the new contract shall be printed and signed, and then the old contract must be destroyed.

8.0.0 Termination of Contract:

This contract may be terminated at any time by the Master, but never by the slave, except under special conditions explained within this contract. Upon termination, all physical evidence of the slavery, including this contract, will be destroyed, and all materials and belongings shall belong to the Master, to be shared or kept as they see fit. The slave, owning nothing and having agreed to give up all worldly possessions and body to the Master, shall once again own their body, but nothing else, unless the Master decides to give back their possessions.

9.0.0 Slave’s Signature:

I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to give everything I own to my Master, and further accept their claim of ownership over my physical body. I understand that I will be commanded and trained and punished as a slave, and I promise to be true and to fulfill the pleasures and desires of my Master to the best of my abilities. I understand that I cannot withdraw from this contract except as stated in this contract.

 

Signature:____________

9.0.1 Master’s Signature:

I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to accept this slave as my property, body and possessions, and to care for them to the best of my ability. I shall provide for their security and well-being and command them, train them, and punish them as a slave. I understand the responsibility implicit in this arrangement, and agree that no harm shall come to the slave as long as they are mine. I further understand that I can withdraw from this contract at any time.

 

Signature:____________

 

Sample slave Contract II:

I, ________________________, with a free mind and an open heart; do request of _______________________ that He accept the submission of my will unto His and to take me into His care and guidance, that W/we may grow together in love, trust and mutual respect. The satisfaction of His wants, desires, and whims are consistent with my desire as a submissive to be found pleasing to Him. To that end, I offer Him use of my time, talents, and abilities. Further, I ask, in sincere humility, that, as my Master, He accept the keeping of my body for the fulfillment and enhancement of O/our sexual, spiritual, emotional, and intellectual needs. To achieve this, He may have unfettered use of my body any time, any place, in front of anyone; to keep or to give away, as He will determine.

I ask that He guide me in any sexual, sensual, or scene-related behavior, both together with, and separate from Him, in such a way as to further my growth as a person.

 

I request of _______________________, as my Master, that he use the power vested in His role; to mold and shape me; assisting me to grow in strength, character, confidence, and being, and that He continue to help me to develop my artistic and intellectual abilities.

In return, I agree:

1) To obey His commands to the best of my ability.

2) To strive to overcome feelings of guilt or shame, and all inhibitions that interfere with my capability to serve Him and limit my growth as His submissive.

3) To maintain honest and open communication.

4) To reveal my thoughts, feelings, and desires without hesitation or embarrassment.

5) To inform Him of wants and perceived needs, recognizing that He is the sole judge of whether or how these shall be satisfied.

6) To strive toward maintenance of a positive self-image and development of realistic expectations and goals.

7) To work with Him to become a happy and self-fulfilled individual.

8) To work against negative aspects of my ego and my insecurities that would interfere with advancement of these aims.

My surrender as a submissive is done with the knowledge that nothing asked of me will demean me as a person, and will in no way diminish my own responsibilities toward making utmost use of my potential. In recognition of my family obligations, nothing will be required of me that will in any way damage or harm my children, nor interfere with the performance of my duties as mother and as wife.

 

This I, _______________________, do entreat, with lucidity and the realization of what this means, both stated and implied, in the conviction that this offer will be understood in the spirit of faith, caring, esteem and devotion in which it is given.

 

Should either of U/us find that our aspirations are not being well served by this agreement, find this commitment too burdensome, or for any other reason wish to cancel, E/either may do so by verbal notification to the O/other, in keeping with the consensual nature of this agreement. W/we both understand that cancellation means a cessation of the control stated and implied within this agreement, not a termination of O/our relationship as friends and lovers. Upon cancellation, each of U/us agrees to offer to the other H/his or her reasons and to assess our new needs and situation openly and lovingly.

 

This agreement shall serve as the basis for an extension of O/our relationship, committed to in the spirit of loving and consensual dominance and submission with the intention of furthering self-awareness and exploration, promoting health and happiness, and improving both O/our lives.

 

I offer my consent to submission to ______________________________ under the terms stated above on this the ________ day of _____________ in the year ________.

 

____________________________

Signature of Submissive.

 

I offer my acceptance of submission by ______________________________ under the terms stated above on this the ________ day of ______________ in the year ________.

 

____________________________

Signature of Dominant.

 

Pre-slavery training agreement:

Agreement of Service while training to be a slave. i, ________________________, with a free mind and will; respectfully request that_______________________ accept my submission of will in order to train me to be his slave. i accept his guidance in my quest to be his property in the future. i recognize and accept that i will be trained to satisfaction of the Dominant’s wants, desires, and whims. i will allow him to mold my thinking to better serve, obey and please him. I agree to offer my time, talents, and abilities to be used as he wishes to achieve that end. i beg that he care of my body while he enhances my ability to serve him sexually, spiritually, emotionally, and intellectually.
i ask to be guided into slavery. To be taught his rules. I beg that he command my behavior, emotions, self-image and thoughts to make me better property in his service.
i freely give my body to use for my growth but that submission is granted voluntarily.
i request of _______________________, as my Dominant, to use the power vested in this role; to mold and shape me; assisting me to grow in strength, character, confidence, and being. i beg you to shape me into your slave, to hold me accountable and move me forward into slavery.
In return, i agree:
To obey given commands to the best of my ability.
To strive to overcome feelings of guilt or shame, and all inhibitions that interfere with my
capability to serve, and limit my growth as a submissive.
To maintain honest and open communication.
To give up privacy of body and mind.
To strive to reveal my thoughts, feelings, and desires without hesitation or embarrassment.
To inform clearly, of wants and perceived needs, recognizing, that the Dominant may choose to decide whether or how these shall be satisfied.
To strive toward maintenance of a positive self-image and development of realistic expectations and goals.
To work in this agreement become a happy and self-fulfilled individual.
To work against negative aspects of my ego and my insecurities that would interfere with
advancement

From this point on add your own detail…….

As W/we enter into this agreement in good faith with good intent and We/we agree that i will be given audience on a regular basis with permission to speak freely at designated intervals, and those words to be regarded without judgment or penalty. It is also known that the Dominant may postpone the audience to a later time in the near future if it is not a good time for him to conduct such audience.

This agreement i, _______________________, do entreat, with lucidity and the realization of what this means, both stated and implied. i do so in the conviction that this offer will be understood in the spirit of faith, caring, and esteem in which it is given.

Until a formal slave agreement is reached either of us may cancel the agreement if one of use finds they are not well served by it, find this commitment too burdensome, or for any other reason wish to cancel it. Either of us may do so by written notification presented to the other party in keeping with the consensual nature of this agreement.

W/we both understand that cancellation means a cessation of the control stated and implied within this agreement, not a termination of our relationship as friends. Upon cancellation, each of us agrees to offer reasons it was canceled.

This agreement shall serve as the basis for an extension of our relationship into a Master/slave relationship. This being our first exploration, we agree to work in the spirit of this document for the term of 30 days from the date of signature below.

Renewal of this contract should not be assumed without a new written extension or alteration of this document entered into during the last week of the terms of this agreement.

i willingly and with full knowledge offer my consent to submission to ______________________________ under the terms stated
above on this the ________ day of _____________ in the year ________.
____________________________
Signature of Submissive

i, with full knowledge of the responsible assumed, offer my acceptance of submission by ______________________________ under the terms
stated above on this the ________ day of ______________ in the year ________.

Play Contract, Temporary slave contract

 

This contract is entered into freely and without reservation in order to set the ground rules for a Master/Slave relationship.

 

__________________________  is heretofore referred to within this contract and within this relationship as Master.

 

 ___________________________is heretofore referred to within this contract and within this relationship as Slave, or by a slave name given to her.

 

Further, the slave respectfully asks that her Master will accept the keeping of the slave’s body for the fulfillment and enhancement of their sexual, spiritual, emotional, and intellectual needs. To achieve this, the Master may have unfettered use of the slave’s body anytime, anyplace, in front of anyone; to keep or to give away, as he will determine.

 

During sessions, the slave refers to the Master as “Master.”  At no time, will the slave use a proper name, or any endearments not approved ahead of time.  Flexibility may be allowed in this, but should not be expected.

 

The surrender as a slave is done with the knowledge that nothing asked of the slave that will demean them as a person, and will in no way diminish their own responsibilities toward making utmost use of their potential. 

 

In recognition of family obligations, nothing will be required of them that will in anyway damage or harm their children, nor interfere with the performance of their duties as mother, father, wife and husband..

 

Because it is temporary agreement a safe word is allowed.  When the safe word is used by the slave the Master will either give a break end the session.  The safe word is: ________________________

 

This relationship is not infinite. This contract may be renewed by mutual agreement before expiration. This contract will be entered into on the date ______________ and will last for a period of ___________ days. 

 

Sessions will occur __________ days per week, from __________ till __________. The session may run overtime occasionally, but this is not to be expected by the slave and is at the discretion of the Master. The Master will always be aware of the slave’s outside life, and will do nothing to endanger relationships or home life of the slave at any time.

 

For initial purposes of this relationship, the slave states that he or he is interested in the following. Initial any items of interest.

 

_____ Bondage.

 

_____ Humiliation.

 

_____ Spanking/Whipping.

 

_____ Subservient Role.

 

_____ Threshold Pain.

 

_____ Terror.

 

_____ Rape/Torture.

 

_____ Nipple Torture.

 

_____ Clitoral/Vaginal Torture – Cock/Testicle Torture.

 

_____ Dildos/Sex Toys.

 

_____ Golden Showers/Scat.

 

_____ Public.

 

_____ Outside Observers.

 

During the course of this relationship, there will be 4 basic ground rules. These may be modified at a future time by mutual consent; however, they are binding at the beginning and non-negotiable. They are:

 

No Kissing.

No Sexual Intercourse. 

No Oral Sex. 

No Exchange of Fluids of any sort. 

During the course of any session, there may be masturbation of the slave, or the slave masturbating the Master in order to please. Precautions will be taken to ensure that no exchange of fluids occurs during these times. Condoms, rubber gloves, etc., will be provided by the slave for this purpose.

 

It will be the slave’s duty to clean the dungeon after any and all sessions. This includes the laundering of dungeon sheets, removal of disposables, etc. This will be done promptly and in good order.

 

Should either the Master or slave find that their aspirations are not being well served by this agreement, find this commitment too burdensome, or for any other reason wish to cancel, either may do so by verbal notification to the other, in keeping with the consensual nature of this agreement. They both understand that cancellation means a cessation of the control stated and implied within this agreement, not a termination of the relationship as friends and/or lovers. Upon cancellation, each of us agrees to offer to the other his or her reasons and to assess their new needs and situation openly and lovingly.

 

This agreement shall serve as the basis for an extension of our relationship, committed to in the spirit of loving and consensual dominance and submission with the intention of furthering self-awareness and exploration, promoting health and happiness, and improving both our lives.

I offer my consent to submission to Master _______________________ under the terms stated above on this ______ day of ___________ in the year _______________.

 

Signature: _______________________________________

 

I offer my acceptance of submission by ____________________ under the terms stated above on this the __________ day of ____________ in the year ____________.

 

Signature: _______________________________________

 

Additional Information:

Be completely honest. You MUST keep your Master informed!

Do you have any medical conditions that require monitoring and medication? _________

If yes, please list them and any procedures that your Master might need to be aware of. Also list any warning signs that will alert him to any probl

 

 

This is a slave petition not a slave contract but might be useful for some.

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