Orgasm con­trol as part of slave train­ing:   There are many stim­u­la­tion meth­ods a mas­ter can employ to train his slave and gain con­trol of her orgasms.   One of the most com­mon is the “tie and tease” method mean­ing you tie your slave’s wide apart and tease her cunt or clit tak­ing her to the edge and forc­ing her to hold her orgasm.  This method takes time to learn.

Orgasm con­trol includes delayed orgasm, orgasm denial,  only allow­ing par­tial orgasm  and orgasm on com­mand.   All these train­ing meth­ods are safe training.

Some master’s allow a slave to mas­tur­bate with­out orgasm to hone her skills.   The Mas­ter will tell a slave how many times dur­ing the day she it to take her­self to the edge of orgasm and stop.    She is to push it to the very edge of orgasm and stop.  she learns that her orgasms are owned by her mas­ter and prac­tices it.

Recently I heard a Mas­ter say that he didn’t feel that he truly own a slave until he con­trol her orgasms.    By that he was that that no mat­ter how much he fucked or played with her cunt she would not cli­max with­out his prior per­mis­sion.  He and many other mas­ters employ a method of  “Tease & denial”   Then if she fails she is pun­ish­ment for cum­ming and then the process starts again.   Many master’s train a slave to beg for orgasm.

Orgasm con­trol, Orgasm denial and release train­ing are all part of the train­ing process.   A slave girl sur­ren­ders con­trol of her sex­ual being to her mas­ter and he uses it as he wishes.

The train­ing pro­ce­dures to gain con­trol of her sex­ual being can be intense.  Often a Mas­ter will Tease a slave, denial orgasm , and  pun­ish­ment her for cumming.  Orgasm denial and orgasm con­trol need to be ingrained in the slave through training.

Below is a a great story of orgasm con­trol and release train­ing for a slave girl in slave train­ing.  slave train­ing almost always con­tains orgasm con­trol by they Mas­ter.  In the arti­cle gina cov­ers the process of giv­ing author­ity for her orgasms to her mas­ter by obey­ing his com­mands.  Dur­ing slave train­ing many slave’s learn these tech­niques and she clearly defines them for you.  This is a good “how to man­ual” for a mas­ter to read.  This is power in orgasm control.

 

Orgasm Con­trol / Release Training

by gina — 07/07/2003

 

My Mas­ter and i prac­tice Orgasm Con­trol which is also known as Release Train­ing. It is NOT the same thing as Orgasm Denial which both my Mas­ter and i do not feel is healthy. We have an agree­ment that i will never go longer than one month with­out hav­ing an orgasm. Usu­ally i don’t go any longer than a week or so at a time.

When i met my Mas­ter and He explained to me that O con­trol was His kink — i looked far and wide for infor­ma­tion on it and found only a cou­ple of arti­cles and noth­ing at all writ­ten by a sub­mis­sive. That is what made me decide to write this article.

O con­trol is some­thing that i totally enjoy. I enjoy it so much that i have to admit that it is now MY kink! It began sim­ply enough. Mas­ter asked me one day if i wanted to ‘try some­thing’ for Him. i was at work and said ‘yes Sir’. He asked me to go to the ladies room and stim­u­late myself to the point where i wanted to have an O — i was then to stop and not cum. When i got home in 4 hours i could go to the shower and bring myself to orgasm.

i shrugged and said sure. i did as He asked and the after­noon passed with some pleas­ant squirm­ing and thoughts of the shower i had been promised. By the time i was dri­ving home, i could think of noth­ing else. My body was on fire and as soon as i got in through the door i went right to the shower and had a won­der­ful orgasm.

“When can we do this again Mas­ter?” was my next ques­tion. Lit­tle did i know! A sub­bie should always be care­ful what he or she asks for! That night Mas­ter asked that i give Him my orgasms. By agree­ment i would not have an O with­out His per­mis­sion. Being a new sub­bie and crav­ing con­trol as i did, i was happy to make that promise.

So from then on, when we played, Mas­ter would tell me ‘not yet gina’ and ‘don’t you dare cum gina’. Finally after much phys­i­cal teas­ing, He would tell me to cum for Him. Although i have always been highly sex­ual and never had an issue with orgasms in the past i found that each orgasm i had using O con­trol was the best i had ever had! i loved O con­trol at that point!. Each ses­sion ended with my hav­ing an O and i was hav­ing more O’s than ever before!

i was such a good stu­dent! Once i became com­fort­able with all that had been taught to me until this point, i was then assigned to do exer­cises every day where i would kneel and insert a light weight vibra­tor. This can­not be done with a heavy vibe! It was rein­forced over and over again that the exer­cises were not for my plea­sure — they are some­thing i do for my Master.

i would then hold the vibra­tor which was turned on low at the begin­ning for short peri­ods of time — begin­ning with just 5 min­utes. i would squeeze my mus­cles around the vibe to hold it in. It was almost like doing kegels. Only harder.

i was not to cum dur­ing exer­cises! i was to stop before i got to that point. And then start again when i could. This was not to exceed one hour. Mas­ter was very clear with His expec­ta­tions. Some days i could do it and other days i couldn’t. never was i made to feel like a failed though. Mas­ter gave me lots of reas­sur­ances and praise dur­ing this time.

Once i was able to hold the vibra­tor for 5 min­utes on low a few times in a row — Mas­ter increased the speed of the vibra­tor each time that i got to the point where i was suc­cess­ful for a few times in a row. Finally when the vibe was turned on high and i could hold it for 5 min­utes; He brought it back to low and increased the time — build­ing it back up again each time i reached suc­cess at one level. i do these every morn­ing. It is one of our rituals.

At that point i was still allowed to touch when­ever i wanted. Lit­tle did i know what a priv­i­lege this was! For about a month Mas­ter prac­ticed phys­i­cally stim­u­lat­ing me and then deny­ing my O — until finally He let me cum. Each time He would let me cum but only after i had waited for longer and longer peri­ods of time.

Then He began to do the phys­i­cal stim­u­la­tion and not let me cum! O con­trol was not so much fun then! i was told i was no longer allowed to touch. My toys were off lim­its and the toy­box kept locked. Mas­ter had begun to take con­trol of my phys­i­cal reac­tions to His teas­ing. He began to build trust that He would not push me past what i could phys­i­cally han­dle. He watched me very closely dur­ing this time.

He then taught me to have small O’s. i was to only allow my body to have a gen­tle release. i would tightly clench my mus­cles and try to hold back the orgasm. Over and over again He rein­forced small O’s with me. He could tell me to have a small O and i would be able to have just a gen­tle one or He could tell me to explode and i would — after phys­i­cal stimulation.

This was prac­ticed time and time again until He could con­trol what inten­sity of orgasm my body had in reac­tion to the phys­i­cal stim­u­la­tion He pro­vided. Again, each suc­cess was cel­e­brated and each time it didn’t work i was encour­aged to try again and praised for all i gave to Him. i was never pun­ished for a mistake.

i found was very hard not to touch. Even today not touch­ing is the most dif­fi­cult part of O con­trol for me! We dis­cussed this when i first real­ized how hard it was gong to be for me. i asked Mas­ter for His help and a pun­ish­ment was agreed upon if this rule was broken.

Mas­ter would remind me daily of what my rules were and how He expected they would be fol­lowed. i found myself leav­ing show­ers, hur­ry­ing to change clothes, and being quite irri­ta­ble. This only lasted for a short time though. For me it was the hard­est period of O con­trol train­ing. For sure it was the most frustrating.

At this point Mas­ter and i dis­cov­ered that i could respond to His voice. He began to ‘talk’ me up or down, some­times using phys­i­cal stim­u­la­tion and other times just using His voice. This was a fun time for both of us as it was such an inti­mate shar­ing expe­ri­ence and i once again loved O control.

We spent a lot of time prac­tic­ing up and down. “Up” meant that through phys­i­cal stim­u­la­tion i would be on the brink of an O and would hold it. “Down” would mean that i was on the brink of an O and i was to deny the feel­ings and bring myself back down off the edge of the orgasm. We moved from up and down through phys­i­cal stim­u­la­tion to up and down though voice con­trol with no stimulation.

Then Mas­ter had a wicked thought. He decided if He could con­trol the inten­sity of my orgasms He would also like to get me to cum but also tell me to stop in the mid­dle. He used His most ‘Dom­li­est’ voice to com­mand me to stop. Mas­ter usu­ally makes requests and is very polite. This was direct order time!

It worked and He could get me to stop in mid orgasm. i hated down and i hated stop­ping but i also loved the fact that He could do this with me. It is very impor­tant to point out at this point that this was some­thing we were doing together, not some­thing that Mas­ter did to me. For awhile when He would make me stop and i was suc­cess­ful, i was allowed to cum after­wards. Finally He moved to the point where He would tell me to stop mid-orgasm and i was not allowed to cum at all.

Next He would give me an assign­ment that had me going some­place nice and quiet. i had a favorite place where i would go and be alone by the side of a stream on my prop­erty but it could have been any­where that i was com­fort­able. The point was that i was alone and not right there to hear His voice.

He would then have me prac­tice going up for Him. And then come down. Or He would have me go some­where and then go up and have an O — big or lit­tle as He desired. Then we decided together that my orgasms were for His plea­sure and there­fore i would only have them when we are together as He rein­forced that my orgasm’s were for His plea­sure and not mine.

O con­trol is not some­thing you can rush through! It is some­thing that is done slowly and built upon, one step at a time. At this point we had been work­ing on it for about a year. Then one day Mas­ter told me to ‘cum for Him’. No phys­i­cal stim­u­la­tion, no talk­ing me up — just CUM. And do it now!!!!

It worked!. My body responded to His order. i was shocked. The orgasm was dif­fer­ent from any i had had before. It came from inside me; not from any­thing that was being done to my body or my mind. He ordered and my body obeyed Him.

The first time it hap­pened i was scared to death! It is very fright­en­ing to real­ize that some­one has con­trol of your body — even when you want them to. The fact that He could do that to me (or with me) made me stop and think really hard about what i was giv­ing to Him and why.

This period took a lot of talk­ing. Mas­ter spent a lot of time reas­sur­ing me and did not push His new abil­ity. He gave me time to get used to the idea of this brand new con­trol He had over me. After lots of talk­ing and reas­sur­ances; i relaxed again and it was on to the next level.

Then came the day that we were in the mid­dle of an argu­ment. i was not too pleased with Him at that point. Sud­denly He orders: “gina, cum for me now”. My mind thought -“yeah right” and then i felt my body start to respond. i began to have an orgasm even though i was so angry at Him i did not want to have that reaction!

This really rein­forced with me that it was His. i belonged to Him now — it really felt that way. Even when i was upset and not feel­ing the least bit horny; He could change that with one request. My body seems to hover on the edge of orgasm a lot now. Again He gave me time to get used to this idea before He moved on.

At this point, i went to my men­tor with a fear. We had been work­ing so long on O con­trol and now Mas­ter could make me cum on com­mand — would He now get bored with me? Was this the end? We had reached the big GOAL so what hap­pens now? Both my men­tor and my Mas­ter reas­sured me that this was just the begin­ning of our growth together and not an end­ing point.

And that was cor­rect. Mas­ter and i are still learn­ing and grow­ing together. Only now we have some­thing that no one else shares with us. Sure i can get stim­u­lated from lots of things: pic­tures, a good hot story, touch­ing, etc but only Mas­ter can make me cum on command.

From that point there has still be more to learn. When Mas­ter com­mands me to cum now i do — imme­di­ately. And i don’t stop. The orgasms just keep com­ing. One after another. Even when it hurts. Until He tells me to stop. And while i am sure that i could take con­trol and stop myself from cum­ming before i died from exhaus­tion — it doesn’t feel that way.

The feel­ing of con­trol is immense. For a sub­bie that is a joy like no other. i feel i truly belong to my Mas­ter now and have given Him a true gift. i hang on His every word; wait­ing for that com­mand to cum for Him and then wait­ing for the one to stop. There is no other way to explain it.

O con­trol is a behav­ioral mod­i­fi­ca­tion. i have been taught that i am to react one way or another depend­ing on His com­mand. Time, patience, sup­port and lots of love have brought my body to the point where Mas­ter can trig­ger the response that He wants from it. It was all done with pos­i­tive rein­force­ment and very lit­tle pun­ish­ment unless i delib­er­ately broke the rules. And it was built up slowly and patiently.

i have heard many who have stated that O con­trol is abu­sive and that it is a type of brain wash­ing. i have heard that it changes the sub­bie in not so pos­i­tive ways. While i can under­stand how this type of power might be abused — as any power might be — for me it has been a very plea­sur­able and reward­ing experience.

i have not changed in any way other than in the way my body responds to my Mas­ter, in the inten­sity of my orgasms, in the level of con­trol Mas­ter has over me and in my self con­fi­dence. Shar­ing some­thing so inti­mate with my Mas­ter and being suc­cess­ful at it has given me a sense of pride as a sub­bie that i had not expe­ri­enced before.

O con­trol or release train­ing is not for every­one. It is some­thing to be tried and then used or dis­carded depend­ing on the results that are forth­com­ing and the reac­tions that the Dom/me and sub are look­ing for. It is not worth break­ing a rela­tion­ship up over. It can­not be forced and for some peo­ple may not be pos­si­ble to achieve.

O con­trol is my kink. It is my kink because i find a peace and com­plete­ness in it that i have not found else­where. Emo­tion­ally i enjoy the con­trol that my Mas­ter has over my mind and body. Phys­i­cally i enjoy the best orgasms of my life. O con­trol pro­vides both myself and my Mas­ter with a lot of joy.