slave Training & BDSM Lifestyle
Welcome to the slave training guide & bdsm lifestyle resource. This website has been one of the major sources of knowledge concerning basic to advanced slave training and also the BDSM lifestyle since 2002.
This slave training guide is predicated on setting goals and instilling the motivation to turn her into a slave girl.
You will learn what she likes and needs from BDSM and why she is drawn to slave training. Her behavior, emotions, self-image and thoughts are all subject to being molded to better serve her Master. The goal of this slave training guide isn’t to hold your hand and provide you the step by step details of slave training. It instead, provides a Master with an outline of slave training. You must fill in the details.
The goal is to teach you “Why ” and the “How TO train a slave” will naturally follow. Keep in mind that BDSM & slave training are based upon the informed consent of each of the parties involved. A slave starts her path into slavery by giving up choices. She consents to start training. she is not forced against her will to start.
Please view the content of this site as a theoretical reference you can turn into a practical slave training aid by adapting it to your life. I don’t know your own BDSM lifestyle, kink or sexual preferences, therefore I can only provide you a general guide. You must do the detailed work of slave training based upon your personal needs for a slave and training methodology. Remember , the fun of this and the joy in life is not reading slave training theory, it’s the actual hands on training. Any B.D.S.M. lifestyle manual or this slave training guide only prepares you to put your art in practice. slave training is a hand’s on experience. I hope to provide more realistic information than the novel “Story of O”
What is the goal for slave training?
The goal of this course is to train her to the point she will be worthy of being your collared slave girl. You mold her to serves you. You train her to make you happy. If you want a sex slave then train her for that purpose. If you want a domestic servant then give her that coaching. Training is geared to the needs, desires and wants of the Master.
For the dominants new to the lifestyle, first you need to learn how to be a master of a slave girl and how to safely conduct training and bdsm play. Many in the lifestyle follow the Gorean model. It’s a method of slave training and lifestyle play that is taken from fiction books written by John Norman about life on the mythical planet Gor. All that fiction, Gorean rituals and Gorean style slave positions aren’t necessary to be a really knowledgable and skilled Master that can train his slave well. Masters were conducting training before John Norman wrote any of the Gor tales. I, like many, relish Norman’s books however I do not base my slave training or lifestyle around these books of fiction. But I do love to read them.
For the new slave trainee, the Master/slave lifestyle is crammed with protocols, rituals, rules and slave positions to learn. Every slave girl can expect most if not all these will be included in her basic training regimen. But in general, if you do not wish to step into the Master/slave relationship and undergo coaching then you can opt for a dominant/submissive relationship. There is nothing wrong with that decision.
This B.D.S.M. lifestyle is about consensual submission into slavery even with total power exchange. You choose the level of your participation in the lifestyle. Slave training is not for every submissive. No lifestyle law is broken if you decide to not undergo slave training. It has been long recognized that slaves and submssives share common interest but aren’t the same.
Slave training: The Start, you don’t have to be experienced.
Unless you have prior experience you will most likely NOT start your slave training experience being a slave. It’s more likely you’ll undergo the. coaching process of becoming a slave. The goal is for you to be the best slave you can be but don’t expect it to happen the first day. For many, the step by step process of becoming a submissive or slave is a more natural process of training. You have a desire to be owned even if you don’t feel you have a submissive personality. The speed you become a slave depends on your ability to learn to serve, obey and please. The bdsm dominant/submissive lifestyle is one that can give you joy and fills that deep need and yearning buried deep in your soul. Embrace it and move forward. Don’t be afraid of your dreams of slavery.
A Master becomes a slave’s personal trainer to guide her into the future. For brand spanking new master’s needing to expand their skills I have done some “train the trainer classes” and may again in the future. These are great slave training jump starters. But even without it you can learn from many alternative sources. There could be Masters in your local area willing to assist you.
In the past I have training slave’s for their Master. I have taken the slave girls into my home for extended period for training. On this website I discuss some deep psychological principles of training a slave. But at the core slave training is an art form albeit based on knowledge and skills founded in logic and reason.
I have also conducted training classes in the use of hypnosis and slave training. My training is geared toward training dominant males and submissive females or female slave. However I have also trained dominant females and assisted in the training of submissive males.
If you are just getting stated, be sure to follow some basic safety precautions and be aware that there are those only interested in domestic abuse and violence. If you meet someone be sure to establish safe calls with a friend even if you have talked to the on-line for a long time. Many that are only interesting in abuse find the lifestyle an avenue to find victims.
Also remember that the dominant/submissive lifestyle is a huge and diverse tent with many members that enjoy edge play and things you may not have even heard of. What some people enjoy as bdsm kinky play or slave training in their relationship may not appeal to you. So be sure to ask and ask and ask to get your questions answered about their slave training and bdsm practices.
Now back to the B.E.S.T. slave training guide and how I conduct slave training.
Foundations of B.E.S.T. slave Training guide
The B.E.S.T. slave training guide stands for Behavior, Emotions, Self-Image and Thoughts. These are all key areas a Master uses in slave training to create a foundation for his slave to serving, obeying and pleasing. Changing, managing and controlling these four key areas are all part developing her.
Each of the four corners of the B.E.S.T. slave training guide are explored in detail and has its own section. Many only look at the Behavior section of this slave training guide but the other three areas are just as important for a Master to understand and use in training. This guide should be viewed in its entirety first because it is a theory based on the whole being of a slave not just behavior.
What do I need to train my slave?
You need a dominant personality, a good character she can trust , and a few basic skills. You have to know what you want and that “want” has to be realistic and obtainable. Reading this slave training guide and understand her “make up” is a good start. Her Behavior is governed by her emotions and thinking and the B.E.S.T. slave training guide explores them in detail from many angles. This course takes you beyond bdsm play into the real world of training a slave to serve and please you for life.
The B.E.S.T. slave training guide is not intended to be used for weekend sport. If you are serious about living the lifestyle of a Master and slave and learning skills then this guide will help you start down that road. No, it is not the complete answer to all your training needs. You have to develop your own skills and find additional resources to help you. It is not an “end all, be all” manual.
A look at the slave training guide:
The slave training guide techniques and management menu section is a resource guides to actual training. Here you learn about spanking, bondage, frigging and other nasty practices you will love. Many detail related to slave training are discussed in this guide. In addition some defining characteristics of a Master are discussed. It is an eclectic section on various slave training related subjects.
The BDSM lifestyle section covers articles about the lifestyle and why it is OK to love bdsm. NO, you are NOT crazy so lighten up. You don’t need professional help for having these feelings. All that is discussed in the bdsm section. I also cover the way the DSM IV views BDSM.
Articles of interest to the BDSM lifestyle community and to B.E.S.T. slave training guide are in the “articles Index” under the “Other” menu. Articles will be constantly added about slave training, BDSM lifestyle, and so on.
As this bdsm lifestyle & slave training guide develops many other subjects will be more deeply explored, such as: bondage, dominance, submission, humiliation, flogging, spanking, canning, training, punishment, B&D, S&M, BDSM, hypnosis, sexuality, sex slave training, advanced orgasm control, discipline, suspension, dungeons, and safe, sane, and consensual practices. This training guide is intended to expand and stay current with today’s news topic about the bdsm lifestyle and slave training.
Thank you for your support for this slave training guide since the site started in 2002. I hope we continue together exploring the Master/slave dynamics for years and years through this general bdsm lifestyle and slave training guide.
Personal note to new masters & slaves interested in the slave training guide and the general bdsm lifestyle
Much of this website deals with psychological theory. But the fun of slave training is grabbing her by the hair if her head and/or seeing her kneel before you with that look only her master sees in her eyes. There is nothing like hands on coaching & training. This material only aids you by giving you basic knowledge. The “B.E.S.T. slave training guide” has never trained the first girl by itself. The skills of a Master and the willingness of a slave are needed. I truly believe slave training is primarily an art form and not a science. So grab a hand-full of her hair and gets started
NOW that is not to say that you don’t need a manual, mentor, or training guide to help you get started. But don’t drag your feet. Besides this slave training guide there are probably local “munch” groups in your area with many experiences Master, slave, subs, Tops, and switches to help you get started.
There are also some very good books that can be used as a guide as you progress into the BDSM lifestyle.
There are many on-lines dating services geared to help you find a Master or dominant or slave or submissive. One is listed at the bottom of this page on the right in the footer.
The following are the main and important categories of the slave training guide.
Theory of B.E.S.T. (an examination of the Basic theory of the manual)
Practice of B.E.S.T. (looking at a slave’s behavior, emotions, self-image & thoughts)
Recommended Books on slavery and those interested in the BDSM lifestyle
Wonderful BDSM Images (I am forever in his debt for allowing me to use some of his images on B.E.S.T. slave training guide)
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