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    Cuffsmaster replied to the forum topic Health status in the group Group logo of submissives ask a Dominant a questionsubmissives ask a Dominant a question 16 hours, 38 minutes ago

    Hi dragonflyfairy – sorry have been busy and not posted much lately.
    I love that statement you made about working hard to improve your physical self because I also believe that helps with they psychological […]

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    Cuffsmaster started the forum topic Positive results of punishment in the group Group logo of Discipline and PunishmentDiscipline and Punishment 16 hours, 57 minutes ago

    Give an example where being punished had an overall positive affect on your growth as a slave.

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    Cuffsmaster replied to the forum topic Training suggestions in the group Group logo of Masters helping MasterMasters helping Master 17 hours, 2 minutes ago

    newfoundMaster – I agree it must fit the environment in which you live and still be very personal to slave.

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    Cuffsmaster replied to the forum topic slaves, What actions of your master brings out deep feelings of slavery in you? in the group Group logo of slave training - general slave training – general 17 hours, 7 minutes ago

    kassia and the collar

    Many don’t know the power of the collar before wearing it. The closeness it brings along with the surrender.

    An extreme example: I once watched a girl who was held down and […]

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    Cuffsmaster replied to the forum topic slaves, What actions of your master brings out deep feelings of slavery in you? in the group Group logo of slave training - general slave training – general 17 hours, 15 minutes ago

    jessyjane says : she actually becomes a woman and even unowned she is a slave.

    I agree she does a unique maturing no matter her age. Often embracing feelings and sensations previously unknown to her or […]

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    Cuffsmaster wrote a new post, SouthEastern Leather Fest (S.E.L.F) 4 days, 10 hours ago

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    I plan to attend The SouthEast Leather Fest (S.E.L.F.)  in Atlanta, GA.   June 20-23th  for a weekend of fun and learning.

     

     

    If anyone else is going to attend please message me.

    I hope to […]

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    Cuffsmaster replied to the forum topic Training suggestions in the group Group logo of Masters helping MasterMasters helping Master 6 days, 16 hours ago

    I admit I have not thought of a belly chain – that is a good idea unless going threw security of some kind. All the damn metal detectors now used.

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    Cuffsmaster and Profile picture of kellykaykellykay are now friends 1 month, 2 weeks ago

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    Cuffsmaster replied to the forum topic Owning A Slave in the group Group logo of Lifestyle Stories and Poems Lifestyle Stories and Poems 1 month, 4 weeks ago

    Well said – beautiful

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    Cuffsmaster replied to the forum topic slaves, What actions of your master brings out deep feelings of slavery in you? in the group Group logo of slave training - general slave training – general 1 month, 4 weeks ago

    I love the watching a slave when she kneels before me and I can see these ”deep feeling” in her eyes. The look when she is feeling her slavey. It is a very beautiful sight to behold.

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    Cuffsmaster commented on the post, Power of Attorney, living wills, wills for a slave 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    If there is someone with more legal knowledge among us, please feel free to expand or add corrections to my post. It’s more important that proper advice be given than my pride not be hurt LOL

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    Cuffsmaster wrote a new post, Power of Attorney, living wills, wills for a slave 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    ThumbnailThese are not subjects that many want to think about but an important consideration for a Master/slave relationship.

    Remember that legal rights are not laid out in a Master/slave contract. A slave contract […]

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    Cuffsmaster replied to the forum topic Using Hypnosis in slave training in the group Group logo of Hypnosis and BDSMHypnosis and BDSM 4 months, 1 week ago

    @ khorina Thank you for posting. I have not covered self-hypnosis yet so this is a good introduction to it.

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    Cuffsmaster replied to the forum topic Contracts in the group Group logo of Rituals, Rules & ContractsRituals, Rules & Contracts 4 months, 1 week ago

    @claudia I think for some a contract is important for them to wrap their mind around what is expected/demanded/required. It lays out their slavery and ownership in clear language. Many need that to help them […]

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    Cuffsmaster replied to the forum topic Contracts in the group Group logo of Rituals, Rules & ContractsRituals, Rules & Contracts 4 months, 1 week ago

    S1704 = the reason I stated that the contract was not illegally binding is because of the questions I get via email. I have been asked if I know a good lawyer to help reenforce a signed slave contract. […]

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    Cuffsmaster replied to the forum topic Contracts in the group Group logo of Rituals, Rules & ContractsRituals, Rules & Contracts 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    I remember that many many years ago the first contract I prepared. I was a cop – and accountant by training. I wanted detail. All loop-holes closed. All problems solved in the opening contract. LOL […]

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    Cuffsmaster started the forum topic Contracts in the group Group logo of Rituals, Rules & ContractsRituals, Rules & Contracts 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    Share your feeling about formal slave contracts. Is your contract very detailed or is it a very general document?

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    Cuffsmaster started the forum topic Rules & Rituals in the group Group logo of Rituals, Rules & ContractsRituals, Rules & Contracts 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    As a slave are you governed by strict rules for your daily life and how do they make you feel? Did you resist the rules when you first started or did you welcome them?

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    Cuffsmaster posted an update in the group Group logo of Rituals, Rules & ContractsRituals, Rules & Contracts 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    Welcome to Rituals, Rules & Contracts

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    Cuffsmaster created the group Group logo of Rituals, Rules & ContractsRituals, Rules & Contracts 4 months, 2 weeks ago

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