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  1. When I started down the road into slave I was afraid of any “BDSM” activities that might involve restraint or pain. Now I’d be afraid if I never experienced it again. I love tight bondage then being flogged. It takes me where I need to be taken and Master knows it.

    I have experienced other things but being tied up and flogged gets my vote as number 1. To many that may seem tame and it is I guess but that is what enables me to best release all that is in me. There is a calmness afterward I never expected.

  2. I too was concerned at times, just unsure of what my Master would do. Now if I have to sleep without my chains it just doesn’t feel right. Most nights I am roped to the bed for some period of time to remind me of my station ( as he says). He often just sits beside me and caresses me. It is not always about the flogging or whipping. But it is about the care and the mental state I go to when in am restrained regularly. There is nothing like good tight bondage and a nice flogging!

  3. I am new to BDSM (only 3 months) and have a wonderful mistress, Maitresse Synthia. She also has a slave boy ben of 7 years. I can honestly say I completely trust her regarding my limits, safety and all around well being. I am opening my mind and look forward to new experiences and challenges each day 🙂

  4. My husband and I have talked about trying bdsm for quite sometime now. I have very little experience in bdsm but do want to learn. As I understand trust means everything and I trust him with my life but it still makes me a little nervous. How can I get passed this nervous feeling??

  5. for this slave its about letting go completely. Imagine, you do not have to worry any longer, if you have failed for anything! that is His job, and He will act accordingly. All you have to do from now on be as obedient and correct as can be, as He orders you to, and accept guidance, correction and naturally punishments.
    you do not have to be nervous, if someone may be nervous it’s Him, the Master. His responsibility, not yours. your responsibility is solely focussing on His pleasure and welbeing, not your own. When and if you live this consequently, you will be deliberated and free of any burden from now on – and Your Master: well, if He is a true Master this grade of control over a human being will bring Him all the fulfillment He too needs, but being a good Master is not easy, and not everyone can cope with that sort of responsibility.

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