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Arti­cles about slavery

ARTICLES from the slave cage giv­ing a slave’s point of view about the bdsm lifestyle, slave train­ing, bondage and more.  The list of arti­cles will grow over time.  Arti­cles on the sub­ject of enslave­ment or other bdsm lifestyle sub­jects involv­ing are welcome.

 

How to exhibit slav­ery with­out even trying

One of the yahoo groups that i am a mem­ber of recently had a post­ing on tasks and rit­u­als. Some slaves were ask­ing for their Mas­ters to assign tasks and rit­u­als so that they could “feel” their slavery.

First of all, this struck me as an order by a slave to her Mas­ter and sec­ond the best way to feel your slav­ery is to think of ways to please your Mas­ter. There are so many lit­tle things that can be done to show your slav­ery (some of them you prob­a­bly already do) and they don’t require much time and effort. Every morn­ing i lay out my Master’s towel for His shower and His socks and under­wear. His first cup of cof­fee is deliv­ered with His slave on her knees (which only takes a minute even if you are get­ting ready for work). Since my Mas­ter is retired and i am still work­ing, if He is asleep when i leave, i make sure the cof­fee is made so all He has to do is push the but­ton. There are prob­a­bly other rit­u­als that escape me at the moment because they are so rou­tine. Another way to show your slav­ery is by mak­ing His favorite meal, buy­ing His favorite foods, or mak­ing sure He has ample sup­ply of any neces­si­ties that He requires.

For instance, a cou­ple of week­ends ago i went to see my fam­ily for the week­end. Before i left, i made sure my Mas­ter had all His favorite foods in the cab­i­net and put a roast in the crock pot for Him to eat on all week­end. The sta­ples that my Mas­ter requires such as deodor­ant, shav­ing cream, razors, and the type of sham­poo He prefers are kept well in stock. Also in stock is ample sup­ply of sugar (Mas­ter uses about ½ cup per cup of cof­fee) and creamer (the kind He likes nat­u­rally). Serv­ing your Mas­ter in the real world doesn’t mean that your can nec­es­sar­ily have a rit­ual or task where your naked and in chains to feel your slav­ery. One needs to real­ize that the lit­tle things can mean so much more than that to a Mas­ter. These are the things that while He may not thank you for, He notices and appreciates.

 

 

The Super Human Master

There is no such thing in real­ity as the Super Human Mas­ter. When we first start explor­ing this world of fan­tasy, the way we usu­ally learn is through books and the inter­net. There are some won­der­ful fan­tasy books out there and I have read most of them, but that’s what they are – Fan­tasy. Read them, fan­ta­size and get hot and wet, but don’t think that you are going to find the Mar­ket Place that Lau­rie Antoinette speaks of in her series of slave books or the won­der­ful palace where beauty lived in the Ann Rice books.

Of course the only excep­tion is on the inter­net where a per­son can be any­thing they want to be, but don’t be dis­ap­pointed if when you meet a Mas­ter for the first time, you dis­cover that He is just a mere mor­tal that bleeds and feels with no super human pow­ers (other than the whip or cane) Being a Mas­ter means never hav­ing to say your sorry. There have been sev­eral times (most in the ini­tial stages of train­ing) when my Mas­ter has admit­ted to a mis­take or apol­o­gized for hurt­ing His prop­erty (emo­tion­ally or physically).

We all come into this rela­tion­ship with a lot of bag­gage and it takes time for it all to come to the sur­face. One exam­ple that comes to mind is when my Mas­ter slapped me for the first time. It caused a VERY neg­a­tive reac­tion due to past expe­ri­ences. We had dis­cussed slap­ping before hand but I was unaware that it would cause such a reac­tion in me. After He calmed me down and we could talk He agreed that although i have no lim­its He would not do this to me again.

One night (over a year later) i was very upset and His reac­tion was to slap me and try to bring me back to real­ity. As you can imag­ine, this was the wrong reac­tion and did not get Him the reac­tion He expected. This caused me to go into fur­ther hys­ter­ics because He had promised He wouldn’t do this. For a moment, my trust was bro­ken, He lied!! After we both calmed down and could talk about it, He apol­o­gized and explained that it was just a gut reac­tion when some­one has gone that far into an emo­tional state. Did the fact that He admit­ted to mak­ing a mis­take make me loose all respect for Him as a Mas­ter? Absolutely not!

The fact that He could admit this to His slave shows how strong and secure He is in His dom­i­nance and also that He is human and sub­ject to mis­takes. Dis­claimer: The arti­cles i have writ­ten are based on my train­ing and my Master’s philoso­phies (which nat­u­rally i share with Him). They are not intended to offend or belit­tle anyone’s train­ing meth­ods. Every­one is enti­tled to their own opin­ion (even a slave).

 

 

24/7 Def­i­n­i­tion In the BDSM lifestyle

This is prob­a­bly one of the most mis­con­strued terms. Unless you are one of the lucky few that get to live in a com­mu­nity naked and serv­ing all the time you feel that you are NOT a 24/7 slave. Most slaves feel this way because they have a job, kids, and other real world responsibilities.

The def­i­n­i­tion of a 24/7 rela­tion­ship (in my opin­ion) does not mean naked and serv­ing 24 hours a day 7 days a week – let’s face it, that’s not humanly pos­si­ble in any realm of the world. A 24/7 rela­tion­ship means that you do your best to serve your Mas­ter and por­tray a pos­i­tive self image of you to reflect well on your Mas­ter. If you are tak­ing care of the kids and they belong to your Mas­ter, then you are serv­ing Him by tak­ing care of his chil­dren. If they are not His chil­dren, then you are serv­ing Him by tak­ing care of your chil­dren, which are a part of you and there­fore an exten­sion of Him. Most slaves don’t even real­ize the lit­tle things they do to serve their Master’s 24 hours a day/7 days a week.

Do you make sure to get Your Master’s favorite foods when you go to the gro­cery store? Do you cook His favorite meals for Him? Do you wash His clothes? This is all part of serv­ing your Mas­ter. This is all part of a 24/7 Master/slave rela­tion­ship. When you are going to work or school and secur­ing a future for your­self by earn­ing a liv­ing or an edu­ca­tion, then you are serv­ing your Mas­ter by tak­ing care of His prop­erty. When you come you bath, comb your hair, put on make-up or any other rou­tines to make your­self look nice, then you are mak­ing His prop­erty look pre­sentable in pub­lic. This reflects on your Mas­ter and there­fore is part of a 24/7 rela­tion­ship. So, when you feel like the real world is inter­rupt­ing with your 24/7 Master/slave rela­tion­ship, just think of the lit­tle things you do to server your Master.

 

 

 

 

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