Articles about slavery
ARTICLES from the slave cage giving a slave’s point of view about the bdsm lifestyle, slave training, bondage and more. The list of articles will grow over time. Articles on the subject of enslavement or other bdsm lifestyle subjects involving are welcome.
How to exhibit slavery without even trying
One of the yahoo groups that i am a member of recently had a posting on tasks and rituals. Some slaves were asking for their Masters to assign tasks and rituals so that they could “feel” their slavery.
First of all, this struck me as an order by a slave to her Master and second the best way to feel your slavery is to think of ways to please your Master. There are so many little things that can be done to show your slavery (some of them you probably already do) and they don’t require much time and effort. Every morning i lay out my Master’s towel for His shower and His socks and underwear. His first cup of coffee is delivered with His slave on her knees (which only takes a minute even if you are getting ready for work). Since my Master is retired and i am still working, if He is asleep when i leave, i make sure the coffee is made so all He has to do is push the button. There are probably other rituals that escape me at the moment because they are so routine. Another way to show your slavery is by making His favorite meal, buying His favorite foods, or making sure He has ample supply of any necessities that He requires.
For instance, a couple of weekends ago i went to see my family for the weekend. Before i left, i made sure my Master had all His favorite foods in the cabinet and put a roast in the crock pot for Him to eat on all weekend. The staples that my Master requires such as deodorant, shaving cream, razors, and the type of shampoo He prefers are kept well in stock. Also in stock is ample supply of sugar (Master uses about ½ cup per cup of coffee) and creamer (the kind He likes naturally). Serving your Master in the real world doesn’t mean that your can necessarily have a ritual or task where your naked and in chains to feel your slavery. One needs to realize that the little things can mean so much more than that to a Master. These are the things that while He may not thank you for, He notices and appreciates.
The Super Human Master
There is no such thing in reality as the Super Human Master. When we first start exploring this world of fantasy, the way we usually learn is through books and the internet. There are some wonderful fantasy books out there and I have read most of them, but that’s what they are – Fantasy. Read them, fantasize and get hot and wet, but don’t think that you are going to find the Market Place that Laurie Antoinette speaks of in her series of slave books or the wonderful palace where beauty lived in the Ann Rice books.
Of course the only exception is on the internet where a person can be anything they want to be, but don’t be disappointed if when you meet a Master for the first time, you discover that He is just a mere mortal that bleeds and feels with no super human powers (other than the whip or cane) Being a Master means never having to say your sorry. There have been several times (most in the initial stages of training) when my Master has admitted to a mistake or apologized for hurting His property (emotionally or physically).
We all come into this relationship with a lot of baggage and it takes time for it all to come to the surface. One example that comes to mind is when my Master slapped me for the first time. It caused a VERY negative reaction due to past experiences. We had discussed slapping before hand but I was unaware that it would cause such a reaction in me. After He calmed me down and we could talk He agreed that although i have no limits He would not do this to me again.
One night (over a year later) i was very upset and His reaction was to slap me and try to bring me back to reality. As you can imagine, this was the wrong reaction and did not get Him the reaction He expected. This caused me to go into further hysterics because He had promised He wouldn’t do this. For a moment, my trust was broken, He lied!! After we both calmed down and could talk about it, He apologized and explained that it was just a gut reaction when someone has gone that far into an emotional state. Did the fact that He admitted to making a mistake make me loose all respect for Him as a Master? Absolutely not!
The fact that He could admit this to His slave shows how strong and secure He is in His dominance and also that He is human and subject to mistakes. Disclaimer: The articles i have written are based on my training and my Master’s philosophies (which naturally i share with Him). They are not intended to offend or belittle anyone’s training methods. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion (even a slave).
24/7 Definition In the BDSM lifestyle
This is probably one of the most misconstrued terms. Unless you are one of the lucky few that get to live in a community naked and serving all the time you feel that you are NOT a 24/7 slave. Most slaves feel this way because they have a job, kids, and other real world responsibilities.
The definition of a 24/7 relationship (in my opinion) does not mean naked and serving 24 hours a day 7 days a week – let’s face it, that’s not humanly possible in any realm of the world. A 24/7 relationship means that you do your best to serve your Master and portray a positive self image of you to reflect well on your Master. If you are taking care of the kids and they belong to your Master, then you are serving Him by taking care of his children. If they are not His children, then you are serving Him by taking care of your children, which are a part of you and therefore an extension of Him. Most slaves don’t even realize the little things they do to serve their Master’s 24 hours a day/7 days a week.
Do you make sure to get Your Master’s favorite foods when you go to the grocery store? Do you cook His favorite meals for Him? Do you wash His clothes? This is all part of serving your Master. This is all part of a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. When you are going to work or school and securing a future for yourself by earning a living or an education, then you are serving your Master by taking care of His property. When you come you bath, comb your hair, put on make-up or any other routines to make yourself look nice, then you are making His property look presentable in public. This reflects on your Master and therefore is part of a 24/7 relationship. So, when you feel like the real world is interrupting with your 24/7 Master/slave relationship, just think of the little things you do to server your Master.