Rules, protocols and rituals of a slave

MY 50 Rules of submission for a slave:

behavioral slave training - kneeling position - PRESENTING to her Master

slave rules

 

You will be expected to learn these 50 slave rules as part of slave training:

1) It submits to the will of its Master and it is bound to Him. It accepts His authority over it for its purpose is to serve, obey and please its Master. It will be managed, disciplined and controlled in a manner beneficial to its slave training and long-term service and inclusion in his household as a slave.

2) It accepts that part of slave training is the actual physical control of its behavior. It will have no privacy from its Master. The space it occupies all its time, physical actions, privacy and relationships with others are controlled and managed by its Master.

3) Communication with its Master is one of the most important aspects of its development as a slave.

It is responsible for answering each and every e-mail sent to it by its Master and when not in His presence, it will send Him at least one e-mail or contact Him each and every day. It must be both specific and explicit in its speech.

It will give complete and accurate answers to each and every question that its Master asks of it.

It is allowed no secrets from its Master.

It will work hard to welcome this openness of body, mind and soul.

4) To receive pleasure it must earn it. It must always give thanks to its Master for all it is given immediately after receiving it, for such things are gifts or privileges granted to it by Him. This also includes any punishment and discipline that it may receive so that it may grow in bondage and serve him better.

5) It will not hesitate in its obedience to its Master and will respond quickly to all orders given.

6) It willingly discusses any issues it has with its Master that limits by trust. Its goal is to trust it’s Master and know His concern for its total safety that includes its emotional, psychological, social, sexual, and physical health.

7) It will work hard to give its Master control and turn my will over to Him.  It knows this is its duty as His slave and it desires to serve and please Him by doing so.

8) It is always in submission to its Master whether He is present or not, ready to please Him at any time, in any place, under any circumstances, regardless of who may be present. His pleasure is more important than its discomfort.

9) When it is not in the presence of Master and it has choices to make. It will perform them to the best of its abilities and within the boundaries and guidance He has established for it. If someone speaks ill of Master, it will defend Him and report this to Master immediately.

10) The opportunity to please its Master is very important to it. It will seek out opportunities to do so. Its greatest felt satisfaction is realized when it knows it has pleased Master. There can be no greater pain or suffering it can feel than when Master is not pleased with it. It will accept the guidance it will need to be put back on track so that it will be forgiven and once again be pleasing to Him.

11) It will learn all the positions Master wants to teach it to the best of its abilities and when display itself to him using them. It knows that by using the slave positions it is enabling Master to better manage and use his slave.

12) Its entire sexual being now belongs to my Master. Master is in complete charge of its sexual desires and it wishes that He molds them in a way that is most pleasing to Him. It is a sexual and sensual being and its entire body is to be available for Master’s use at all times. It is Master’s choice as to how its sexual being will be used to please him.

It must never reach orgasm without explicit permission from Master. Its failure to receive permission before cumming will cause it to endure the punishment Master will put upon it. Such pleasure must be seen as a privilege so that it does not take advantage of it. It is to undergo intense pussy/cunt training so that it will learn to better serve and please its Master’s needs with the pussy/cunt.

It will never touch its breasts, nipples, pussy or clit with its hands or sex toys in any manner where it could experience sexual or sensual pleasure without permission from Master. It fully acknowledges that it no longer has ownership of its sexual being.

When it has been given permission to play with itself, it shall do so in the following manner: working its clit almost to an orgasm and then stopping for a few minutes, then working it again to almost at orgasm and then stopping for a few minutes, and then finally working it again to a full orgasm. Then and only then shall it enjoy an orgasm on its own. Should it cum before the third tier – it will tell its Master so it may be punished. It will play with itself in this manner even in His presence.

13) The safe word given to me by my Master can be spoken at any time – even When it has been told to be silent. If it is not able to verbalize it – it will trust its Master will show me how it can express it. Safe words are for its protection as well as His.

Its Master does not view a safe word as a limitation of His authority, but as a means to insure its safety. Because it is granted a safe word, it is expected to correctly use it. It can be punished if It attempts to use it for control or to set basic limits on its Masters authority. It is a safety device only.

It’s safe word is “red light”. It cannot be punished for using its safe word. It will practice remembering its safe word. It may also, if getting close to its limits says “yellow light”. Its Master is under no obligation to stop at the yellow light warning. It has no right to control a scene by the use of the safe word; it is intended for protection and to inform its Master that it is unable to transfer the pain unto pleasure. Its Master judges how to use the information.

In general, it is not allowed a safe word during punishment. It must remember that punishment could never be very effective if it were able to control it. It must take punishment in full measure so that it will focus on the correction of its behavior for the long term, for unlike discipline, punishment is not what it will want again. It should know better than to displease him and accept his punishment.

 

14) It must confess to its Master when it has disobeyed (intentional or not) so that He may decide if such violations require it to be disciplined and/or punished. It must accept whatever decisions He makes by thanking Him for His choice. If it is disciplined or punished, it must focus upon how sorry it is for not behaving in the way that it has been taught – for it has displayed an unacceptable act which is displeasing to Him. It must remember to thank its Master for its punishment.

15) It will endure whatever discipline or punishment Master gives it so it can become a better slave for Him. It will work on building up its tolerances to the level Master needs it to have, being careful not to push itself further or faster than it is ready to endure for Him, so that it may be able to expand its limitations and increase its value to Him. It fully acknowledges and accepts that its Master has the right to expand its limits as he wishes.

16) It shall never think of itself as a weak person for it takes a strong female to commit to the drive inside it, to serve, to obey and to please a Master. It must remember that how well it behaves enlightens and empowers it to become even closer to which it is – a devoted slave, of good rapport to a Master who truly understands its needs in relationship to His own.

17) The needs of its Master must always come first before its own for they offer an opportunity to please Him. It must be attentive to the needs of its Master and always be ready to respond to them to the best of its abilities and in the way He has shown it.

18) It is allowed and expected to suggest ways to further its slave training or use of it, verbally or through its journal, as long as it addresses its Master properly first.

19) It knows that other than any hard limits and safe word that he grants this slave, it can make no demands or place limits on Master’s authority. It can give Him no orders. It doesn’t control his time or who he chooses to give his attention too. It knows that attempts, by it, to limit His power, control or status as a Master would lead to it being punished.

20) It must always respond fully both physically and verbally to whatever Master does with it. The expressions of its emotions and its physical responses are important to Him. It must never hold back any part of their display, regardless of how intense they may be, unless restricted by restraints or orders to do so.

21) Its health is important to its Master. It will eat properly. It wants to be healthy and of sound mind and body, free as possible of any personal limitations, when pleasing Master. It cannot refuse Master’s decision that it seeks medical attention, if so ordered. If placed on a diet by Master, it will obey His decisions as to the method of weight loss and make routine reports to Him as to its progress. After losing the weight it Master requires, it will maintain the weight that pleases Him.

22) It will always listen with a strong interest in whatever Master has to say during slave training.

23) It will not date others or form a relationship with others without permission from Master. It will not communicate with other Masters without Master’s permission. This includes in person, telephone, instant messaging or e-mail. It will report all contact directly and quickly to Master. Master makes the decision as to what types of contact it is allowed to have with other Masters. Master can deny, grant or terminate any communication it has with others when he wishes.

24) Punishment Rules:

It knows Master has the right to discipline or punish it at any time He wishes for any violation. It will submit to any discipline or punishment Master sees fit. It knows that it will be punished or disciplined for violations of the rule, both written and oral, in order to correct its behavior and to insure He find it pleasing. The punishment will fit the violation that it has committed. Master shall determine how and when and where it is to receive this punishment. It knows that as a standard it will be punished for the following reasons:

 

Cumming without permission,

Taking a Master, boyfriend or slave without permission,

Talking back to Master in a way that shows rebellion,

Willful failure to serve, obey and please,

Attempting to force dominant side upon Master,

Attempting to get out of this contract, without cause,

Major violations involving – safety of a serious and/or dangerous nature, and violations of law.

It has the right to plead for a lesser punishment, but Master is under no obligation to grant a reduced punishment.

25) When told to perform a duty for Master, it will do so without delay or question unless it doesn’t understand the meaning of the order. It may seek clarification of any order from Master. This is not to be interpreted as a means of arguing are disagreeing with orders.

26) It will always show respect for Master. It will find ways to serve and please Him and show its worth as a slave. If it displeases Master it desires that He inform it so that it can correct its actions. It is responsible for all words that it speaks. It will not question Master’s authority over this slave.

27) It knows that being stubborn could be displeasing to Master and it will not displease Him by displaying this selfish behavior.

28) Any feeling of anger, mistrust, or other counterproductive emotions will be expressed to Master in order that He may find a way to correct these feelings. It is its duty to do so.

29) It will worship Master. It worships Master’s whip, respects Master’s right to use it for His pleasure and its punishment.

30) Its mouth is for my Masters pleasure. It will learn that:

31) It must always wear revealing and sexy clothing of good taste around Master unless given permission to do otherwise. The clothing it wears will allow easy access to its pussy/cunt, ass and breasts. Its basic attire in the presence of my Master shall always include a collar given to it by Master. It must never be concerned when it feels too much of my flesh is showing, however it can ask Master for permission as to how to handle its discomfort. In public, it is to wear a dress or skirt without panties around Master. It must remove all of its clothing in the way it has been taught when Master commands it to do so.

32) It must sleep in the nude and wear the collar provided by Master.

33) Its legs, underarms and pussy/cunt must be kept completely shaved smooth and clean so that nothing of it is hidden from view. Unless otherwise given permission – its hair must be kept in a manner that is pleasing to Master.

34) Whenever Master speaks, even when it is speaking, it is to immediately become silent. It must never interrupt Him unless He has shown it how to communicate with Him. This rule does not apply in an emergency. It will listen each and every time Master speaks so it can learn or receive His orders.

35) Only through submission can it find its true self. Its life becomes complete by pleasing and serving Master. Only in complete submission to Master shall it realize the depth of the love it has within and will learn to freely express it.

36) It may, at times, offer various parts of its body to its Master in hopes He will take pleasure in using them in whatever way He wishes. Its only hope will be that its offering will please Him. If not, it wants Him to punish it.

37) It must always remember how pleased Master is when it thinks of itself as sexy and showing off its assets. Its behavior must always display a sexual content however subtle. It is expected to learn how to feel and be happy. When it walks, runs, sits, stands, kneels, reach outs, speaks, or listens – it will do so in a manner pleasing to Master

38) Master may use it as He wishes. It knows that Master is training it so that it may be of long-term service to Him.

39) If it is sent to serve others, it will do so in a way that is pleasing to Master. This is not intended to mean sexual service of others.

40) It is to focus on its service and obedience and accept the fact that it is being trained for continued and lasting pleasure to Master. The more it learns and strives to please Master the more pleased He is with it. It is not expected to misbehave to get attention. It is expected to learn how to serve and obey.

41) If it is wearing a dress or skirt and no panties and it is going to sit down – it must sit on its bare skin in private or in a vehicle unless told otherwise.

42) It knows that how it PRESENTS itself to Master is important. It knows that being Master’s slave will require behavioral changes on its part and it will learn Master’s “slave”, “service” and “at ease” modes. These modes are given to it by Master to show it how it will act at all times.

43) When possible it will place itself on Masters right side while sitting at His feet or walking in public or private. It will not walk in front of Master, unless directed to do so. When walking, it will heel to Master’s right side.

44) During training, Master will establish goals for it and it is responsible for their completion on a timely basis. It will inform Master if it is not motivated to accomplish the goals. It is responsible for insuring that it understands the goals and may ask question to insure it understands them. It knows it is slave’s responsibility to insure that it fully understands the goals Master establishes for it.

45) Its performance as a slave will be evaluated based upon my service to its Master. Detailed at http://bestslavetraining.com/BESTperform.htm. It will freely answer and questions that assist Master, when assessing its performance.

46) Any rule can be disobeyed or delayed if it conflicts with common sense safety, family, or causes employment problems. It, if possible, will report in advance why it can’t comply with certain rules so that Master can make the final decision as to how it should act. If prior notification and approval is not possible, it will report all details as soon as possible to Master. Master expects it to obey all His orders and rules at all times, but realizes the importance of its safety, family and employment. This shall not be considered a blanket invitation to disobey any of the other rules. It realizes that it is only relieved of punishment if it disobeying or delaying is justified. Master makes the final decision as to what is justified. If Master determines that my failing to obey does not meet the spirit of this rule, it will be subject to his punishment.

47) Master may freely own, train and use other slaves for His pleasure and service and may if he wishes use it with them. It has no right of refusal to Master.

48) There are occasions where Master will assign another slave to train it or assign it to train another slave in some area of which it has knowledge and skills. If it is to be trained by another slave it will give her its full attention and do its very best to learn from her, If it is to train another slave, I shall not hold back information and teach her all the skills necessary to properly serve Master. Pleasing Master means developing and Master/slave family unit.

49) Its purpose is to serve, obey, please and to submit to the will of Master, it is fully aware that it is owned by Master but it has no ownership of him. . Master does not compare it to other slaves and wishes that it become all that it can be as a slave. It earns Master’s respect and love based upon its skills, talents and abilities not its sister slaves’ talents. It is not to focus on the behavior of other slaves, for their training is in the hands of Master, If it finds itself jealous of another slave’s skills or the attention she is getting, it shall present itself to Master and report its feelings. It will work hard to develop and add to its Master/slave family.

50) It is responsible for maintaining a current list of these rules and all other material provided for its training. It knows that after training it is to still maintain and study these rules that will be used as a basis to govern it over a long term period. It is not expected to memorize these rules, however it is expected to study them and know them and abide by them. Each rule may have more than one meaning, depending on the topic and it will know all meanings as provided by Master. The final determination as to the meaning of each and every rule, regulation, and/or guideline, punishment, and the contract will be determined by Master. Master is the supreme authority as to their meaning. It will yield to his authority.

In Part, inspired by the document “128 Basic slave Rules” copyright 1992-2002 by Jonathan Kay who can be contacted at trace@icehouse.net for anyone wishing a complete copy.   These slave training rules can be found on many sites.

 

 

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