Welcome to the original B.E.S.T. slave training theory website in operation since 2002. The B.E.S.T. slave training guide details the art, psychology and science of slave training and the BDSM lifestyle. Topics are designed to increase knowledge of slave training techniques and methods, behavior, management and hypnosis. BEST slave training look at more than behavioral changes. [...]
I plan to attend The SouthEast Leather Fest (S.E.L.F.) in Atlanta, GA. June 20-23th for a weekend of fun and learning. If anyone else is going to attend please message me. I hope to see you there. For more information you can Google SouthEast Leather Fest (S.E.L.F.). A great place to be if [...]
Power of Attorney and living will for a slave. These are not subjects that many want to think about in a Master/slave relationship. But being a good Master means you consider and handle such issues. The slave girl is your responsibility and this is part of proper slave management & care. The power of [...]
Welcome to B.E.S.T. slave training. You will find forums and lots of great information about slave training. Enjoy There are many areas on the site. Just explore the menu above. The side is geared to provide an educational resource for the Master/slave relationship. So in that light, slave training [...]
The slave’s Vessel - A slave is trained to serve her master in the daylight as well as in the bed at night. Her domestic or other service is important to the success of their lives. Every slave needs a vessel she can fill and serve her master with. She serves, obeys and pleases her [...]
by Cuffsmaster
May 18, 2013 in Community, News by Cuffsmaster
I plan to attend The SouthEast Leather Fest (S.E.L.F.) in Atlanta, GA. June 20-23th for a weekend of fun and learning.
If anyone else is going to attend please message me.
I hope to see you there.
For more information you can Google SouthEast Leather Fest (S.E.L.F.).
A great place to be if you are interested in Kink, bondage, slave training or a myriad of other interest related to B.D.S.M.
by Cuffsmaster
January 31, 2013 in Slave Training by Cuffsmaster
Power of Attorney and living will for a slave. These are not subjects that many want to think about in a Master/slave relationship. But being a good Master means you consider and handle such issues. The slave girl is your responsibility and this is part of proper slave management & care.
The power of attorneys and will are more important for a 24/7 slave than someone you occasionally see. In fact, I would not recommend them if you don’t live with her.
slave’s will and POA
Remember that legal rights are not laid out in a Master/slave contract. A slave contract is NOT legally binding only morally binding between the parties. You must have proper legal documents to exercise legal rights over her affairs. Don’t believe a slave contract will acts as a will or power of attorney, it will not. I would not recommend that you try to include a power of attorney or will in your slave contract. A power of attorney should be a separate document unclouded with the conditions set forth in a usual slave contract. Keep it simple and easy for a court to enforce if needed. If you have to get the power of attorney enforced by a Court keep it simple and near what the Court is use to seeing and enforcing. Why complicate it for yourself or the Court? When you need it enforced you probably don’t have time to discuss unrelated issues in the slave contract. Don’t take a chance on voiding the power of attorney. living will or will by including them in an otherwise unenforceable document. Keep them separate.
There are two types of power of attorney that should be considered for a slave to sign granting her master legal authority. The 1) durable power of attorney and the 2) power to handle medical issues.
by Cuffsmaster
December 21, 2012 in Slave Training by Cuffsmaster
WELCOME
Welcome to B.E.S.T. slave training. You will find forums and lots of great information about slave training.
Enjoy
There are many areas on the site. Just explore the menu above. The side is geared to provide an educational resource for the Master/slave relationship. So in that light, slave training is the main focus.
by Cuffsmaster
November 21, 2012 in Slave Training by Cuffsmaster
The slave’s Vessel - A slave is trained to serve her master in the daylight as well as in the bed at night. Her domestic or other service is important to the success of their lives. Every slave needs a vessel she can fill and serve her master with.
domestic service — carrying a vessel Image c. 1910 by Lehnert & Landrock
She serves, obeys and pleases her master. Not ever act of service needs to be ordered by her Master. she just knows that she needed and fills the vessel for her Master.
by Cuffsmaster
November 20, 2012 in Slave Training by Cuffsmaster
I want to thank Derek Bowden for allowing B.E.S.T. slave training Guide the use some of his images. It’s clear that he knows his art and has the skills to present it well. It’s Derek’s way of sharing with us and helping the website grow. His images help greatly in accentuating BDSM and slave training. Thanks Derek.
Image by Derek Bowden
by slave-e
October 8, 2012 in Slave Training by slave-e
I write this under the direction of my Master. It was in a conversation we had today discussing how I have grown, where I have come from, and where I am today that I am instructed to write this post. I do not submit that I know everything, or know it all, because that is far from the case, in this or any other matter. However, I speak from experience, insight, gut wrenching intuition and an understanding of my slavery
slave table — taming a slave — Image by Derek Bowden
Two years ago (or in that vicinity of time) I sent an email to Master outlining my heart, my life, my fears, and my nightmares. I was always expected to be the strong, independent, capable woman, and although I do that with ease in my day to day life, I knew there was a part of me that was not complete. And it was in that first email that I shared those thoughts and feelings.
by Cuffsmaster
September 29, 2012 in Slave Training by Cuffsmaster
Jealousy and adding a second slave to the poly family. Jealousy is the major killer of the dream of a polyamorous relationship. Because another slave
ready for whipping by Derek Bowden
is present and seen interacting with her master, jealousy will go seriously awry if not checked. It’s the slave’s imagination & fears instead of reason & facts causing issues. It’s often caused by a Master’s lack of preplanning to prepare his trainee. However sometimes jealousy is almost ingrained and a deeper analysis using The B.E.S.T. slave training theory will facilitate overcoming it.
by Cuffsmaster
September 27, 2012 in Slave Training by Cuffsmaster
Loyalty if a polyamorous Master/slave relationship is complex and different for a Master than his slave’s because of the very nature of the relationship.
Photographer Derek Bowden
Trust and a feeling of belonging are necessary to allow loyalty to grow. You become loyal to someone you feel a connection to.
It is the Master’s responsibility to build the feeling of belong in a submissive to foster her loyalty to him, the polyamorous Master/slave relationship and the other slave. The master assumes the burden of building and protecting his slaves’ loyalty. This is not easy because everyone has conflicting loyalties. An example would be the loyalty to a friend can conflict with loyalty to family or a principle.
“The scholar does not consider gold and jade to be precious treasures, but loyalty and good faith.” – Confucius
by Cuffsmaster
September 12, 2012 in Desgn by Cuffsmaster
l need help with SEO if you are good at Google penalty recovery . Penguin or panda recover. I have done most of the recovery work still but need help/advice. I am a Master, writer and photographer not a computer guy. So I have been stumbling through the recovery process.
I think the B.E.S.T. slave training Guide reduction in visitors was due to what is called a “Google Penguin update.” As I understand it many websites suffered. The drop-off occurred between April 17, 2021 and April 22, 2012 . The huge drop in Google ranking and traffic came on April 21 where traffic went to zero in one day and remained there.
The good news is that on July 30, 2012 after I changed to WordPress and did some changes to the pages my ranking did a one day recovery. Even though the number of my daily site visits is higher than pre-penalty visitors my overall ranking in Google is still less. This is probably due to have User memberships now.
Here is an example of what I am talking about. For the search words “slave training” before the “penguin update” I was on page 1 for 10 years. After April 22 my page ranking when to about page 15 and remained. It is not back to about page 3. There has been a recovery but not good enough.
So … I need some help if you are good at SEO and analyzing Google penalties. If you can offer advice or help send me a message by going to the “Contact Me’ menu at the top. Tile the Email — “B.E.S.T. SEO Help.” Thank you.
by Cuffsmaster
September 7, 2012 in BDSM by Cuffsmaster
BDSM and slave training: BDSM has a fluid definition described at the bottom of the article. Most Masters that train a slave girl are also involved in BDSM play, but not all. Generally a Master uses bdsm as a training tool to deepen slavery as well as engaging in scene play for fun. Using it as a
BDSM — Image by Derek Bowden a fellow memeber of B.E.S.T.
training tool is often a different use and approach than meeting for s&m scene play. Just remember that you should always consider what is safe, sane and consensual bdsm play based upon your experience level.
Many Tops and bottoms will meet only for scene play then move on without any intent of a long-term relationship. For them the bdsm scene play is the end result. Many refer to it as “meet. beat and forget.” For the Master/slave relationship bdsm scene play is not only for fun in the present but also used to prepare the slave for the future.
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