Do you want to train a slave to serve, obey and please you? Then I believe you have come to the right place to learn slave training. In addition to guiding her in her desires, you learn the BDSM lifestyle, hypnosis, bondage and many other skills needed.
The aim of B.E.S.T. slave training is setting goals for a slave in training. This includes instilling motivation to guide her into fulfilling her desires to be a slave girl.
B.E.S.T. is an acronym for:
I discuss these four cornerstones of B.E.S.T. and general practices and theories of slave training. Study each of the four training cornerstones.
What is the goal and is it going to be achieved in slave training?
My purpose is not to hold your hand, but provide a step by step process to follow when training a slave. Keeping in mind that the foundation of the BDSM lifestyle is the informed consent of the parties involved.
A slave begins her path into slavery by giving up choices. Often a slave contract clearly states both parties requirements. A slave needs to go into this with her eyes wide open. The purpose of this guideline is to train her to the point she is worthy of being a collared slave girl.
A master should design her training to mold her into the type of slave you desire. If you wish a sex slave, then teach her those skills. If you require domestic, then train in those skills. A Master trains a slave to fit his needs. She can be trained to have many skills if required.
A new dominant in the lifestyle, first must learn to Master a slave girl and conduct safe training and BDSM play.
Many in the lifestyle follow the Goren ways. This came from a series of books written by John Norman about life on the mythical planet of Gor. It is not necessary to follow this brand of the lifestyle. Masters have been training slaves long before the books. I, like many relish the books, but prefer my own style of training. A new slave will find the lifestyle crammed with slave positions, protocols, speech restrictions, rituals and rules. It is not an absolute, to have all these, but most new slave girls respond well to them.
Slave; hear me; it is not necessary be experienced as a slave or at BDSM
The need to have prior experience at bdsm is a myth many future slaves worry about. Every Master has his own brand of training techniques. Listen to your Master, hear his words and become the best possible slave girl you can be. Never fear your dreams of slavery, embrace them, and you will learn fast. Ask questions when in training, in order to understand what is expected of you. If in silent protocol, remember the question and ask when speech is granted.
A Master becomes a slave’s personal trainer. He guides her into her future. In these pages, I give the trainer sound methods to accomplish training his slave girl. The core of slave training is an art form albeit based on knowledge and skills, found in logic and reason. These pages are geared towards training slave girls and dominant men, but can be used to train slave boys and dominant women. The roles are the same.
If you are just getting started, be sure and follow basic safety precautions. The lifestyle is not a place to practice domestic abuse or violence. Upon first meetings, a slave should have a safety phone number if she doesn’t call in a set time the police are called. Many use the lifestyle use this avenue to find victims. Be safe, not sorry. Be sure and ask over and over, until you understand the Masters training and BDSM practices. Ask for references and some personal information, before meeting. There are Masters that enjoy edge play, and you need to understand all the diversities of the lifestyle. Set your limits for training and expect them to be followed.
What do I need to train my slave?
You need a dominant personality, good character she can trust and a few foundations skills. A master must know what he wants and be realistic. These pages will help with the foundations. This website deals with training a slave to serve for life. This is not a weekend sport for most slave girls; it is their core. If serious about living the lifestyle as Master/slave girl, follow the knowledge in these training guides.
A look at the slave training guide
“The slave training guide techniques” part of this website details many training methods. You learn about spanking, bondage, frigging and other nasty practices you will love. Many details related to slave training are discussed here. It is an eclectic part discussing several subjects.
The BDSM lifestyle section covers articles about the lifestyle and why it is OK to love bdsm. NO, you are NOT crazy so lighten up. You don’t need professional help for having these feelings. I also cover the way the DSM IV views BDSM.
Articles of interest to the BDSM lifestyle community and to B.E.S.T. slave training guide are in the “articles Index” under the “Other” menu. Articles will be regularly added about slave training, BDSM lifestyle, and so on.
As this guide develops many other subjects will be more deeply explored, such as, bondage, dominance, submission, humiliation, flogging, spanking, canning, training, punishment, B&D, S&M, BDSM, hypnosis, sexuality, sex slave training, advanced orgasm control, discipline, suspension, dungeons, and safe, sane, and consensual practices. This training guide is intended to expand and stay current with today’s news topic about the bdsm lifestyle and slave training.
Thank you for your support for this slave training guide since the site began in 2002. I hope we continue together exploring the Master/slave dynamics for years and years through this general bdsm lifestyle and slave training guide.
Personal note to new Masters & slaves
Much of this website deals with psychological theory. But, the fun of training a slave girl is grabbing her by the hair and/or seeing her kneel before you with that look only her Master sees in her eyes. There is nothing like hands on coaching & training. This material only aids you by giving you basic knowledge. The “B.E.S.T. slave training guide” has never trained the first girl by itself. The skills of a Master and the willingness of a slave are needed. I honestly believe slave training is primarily an art form and not a science. So grab a hand-full of her hair and lets get started